How do basically nice people get over bitter feelings caused by misunderstandings...?
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Getting over bitter feelings:
- Rational minds demand rational understanding of events gone wrong to reconcile differences, or;
- Logical minds similarly demand accordingly to reconcile, or;
- The faithful or those whose beliefs incalcate belief of forgiveness are better able to accept bitterness, or;
- The anitithesis of forgiveness is to exploit or puposefully position the situation to disadvantage the offending party, where revenge lends some consolation to the offended; and
- "Crazy" is simply a byword or word of not understanding the other persons' viewpoints, which may be reconciled with the above.
Most events revealed in post mortem to the inexperienced person through hindsight whereas the wise and experienced are able to postulate with a certain accuracy of the likely precursor to the said trigger of bitterness.
Sad as it may be, the unfolding event does not confer the benefit of hindsight to the person in a fast paced life but to the astute and casual observer, which is often the case.
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Assumptions are laudable attributes of the mathematical mind and the pragmatist in a fast pace environment. Less frequently, it is the accompanying relative to enquiring and cautious mind, whose satisfaction is derived through a drawn out process of consideration with healthy scepticism.
Expressions of 'Giving in' are associated with defeat and hence the perceived weakness as a knee jerk reaction, in favour and above;
The less perceptible privileged position of strength whose form and sometimes function, allows forgiving whilst abating the hostile attribution.
they just do. life goes on
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