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am i the only one to notice or have this happen to them?
whenever i get to trust someone entirely and feel safe around them , they leave suddenly..
has that only happened to me or is it with everyone , that has happened to me with absolutely everyone i know..

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Its not weird. It use to happen to me all the time. Here's what I learned from the experience: In life there are two types of people. People in your life for a season and people in your life for a reason. Now those that are in our lives for a season are suppose to learn something from us. Sometimes we never know what or if they learned anything and suddenly they just leave. Then there are people in our life for a reason. Those are the people that we are suppose to learn from and then they suddenly leave. Its quite normal. Now the 2nd reason could be you do the same thing I did without even realizing it. The people you choose to be friends with are generally unstable. That means that their lives are filled with coming and going. They can't decide if they want to stay somewhere if they want to go. They are generally very irresponsible and unable to handle large problems. When a problem arises they tend to leave to escape it. Next time you decide to choose someone for your friend in hopes that they will stick around. Find out what about this person makes you want to be their friend. If their character traits involve some of the ones I listed above then avoid growing very attached to them, because you can almost always be assured they will suddenly go too. Good luck!

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Are picking the same type of people over and over?

you have just summed up life. or, if they don't leave, they lie about you and tell all your secrets behind your back

Sounds like you're a very giving person. Try not to wear your heart on your sleeve. Remember, you can never trust anyone entirely, only the lord Jesus Christ.

your really nice then. ^^ and i guess those people don't deserve to your friends. find new friends who are as caring and trusting as you are. =] but it isn't weird. i'm sure it happens and i guess people just change thats all. everyone changes. my friends and i used to super close but after we graduated we drifted it apart. i don't think its just trust issue. i'm sure you'll find people who'll deserve your friendship. ^^ take cares~

first, is this a true expierence or are you seeing only those who do?.and if it is true are you sure its your fault or is it the natural order of your life.are you attached to people you know will leave or perhaps it can even be something like the area you live in?..i ask this because it happenes to me a lot.like for forty years now, even my ex who was with me for 28 years i have been lonley, but dont let it turn into paranoia..be safe and dont let it get to you

to answer your question,you are not the only one it happens to.i used to have the same problem.what i noticed is that the problem was with them and with me.i opened up too late to some people as a result they lost their patience and left.some people were just never meant to be there so they left.the best is just take everything as it comes.dont let it get to you,somebody will come along and all this might be something you have to go through so you can learn a thing or two.who knows it may even make you a stronger person.hang in and all the best

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