why the fear of men?
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A man with a temper who is big and tall is a natural and probably very good man to be affraid of. If he is loud it is natural to be affraid of. It may just be a natural instinct that is pre programed because they are dangerous. Stay away from people that are mean like that they are dangerous. Talk to your school counsellor and see if they can help you. If someone is hurting you right now see if you can get help from a trusted adult. No sweetheart you are not crazy. When I was your age I thought I was crazy all the time too. I went to the school counsellor and could not figure out what it was. I later found out that my father was cheating on my mother and that was why I was waking up to hearing her crying to him on the phone because he was not comming home. There may be something going on below your radar that you are picking up on emotionally, but do not understand. Talk to your counsellor at school. Just do not doubt yourself. It is not you. If you figure it out get help. Always realize it is not your fault. If you remember if someone hurt you tell a trusted adult.
It is not you and not your fault and you are not crazy. If a man is angry he is not safe and is dangerous it is natural to feel fear. Tell your counsellor about these angry men.
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I think you had a bad experience. Maybe something very serious happened. There are good men and bad men. Surround yourself with good people in general and you will get beyond this.
maybe something that happened in your childhood gave you that fear
No, at 14 having a fear of men just means that you are not ready for any kind of serious relationship. This will happen in years to come, but not now. There is nothing wrong with you and you are not crazy. You are normal. If you notice that friends of yours seem more interested then you in men, then that's ok. Most of them are probably just trying to fit in anyways. Don't rush anything, that would be the worst thing you could do. Take your time, you have your whole life ahead of you, and now is not the right time to be concerned with guys.
You aren't crazy. You are most likely scared because of reviouse bad experiences in your life that have related to men who are taller then you with tempers nad loud voices. It is your way of protecting yourself from being hurt again. Seeking counseling will most likely help the most, however I also know that tha can be a hard thing to do.
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