What can ya do?

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I asked a question about something like this earlier, but why do I feel like I have to impress people for their approval. I always feel like I have to do something to keep their interest in me. The results can be me being obnoxious and loud. Just for example, I tell a couple jokes, 1 or 2, and keep kinda quite the rest of the night, would that be fine? I feel like I gotta always be in the joke or moment. Not that I'm trying to but in or get attention, its just for some reason I feel like I always gotta be doin something so I dont lose friends.

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this is the exact way i am. i also make stupid jokes to, to where some people get anoyed. i dont know what to tell u. its the very same thing w/ me. sumtimes im not even making sense or talking im just ranting. to where people get really anoyed. have u ever seen the movie armegedon? well the person whos right next to the nuke/warhead on the asteriod is alot like me wen he says, hey sharp. no nukes. no nukes. wen hes joking, and the other guy asks sharp if hes got anymore bullets in his gun. if u havent seen it, u have to.

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look at it this way. in a sense they already like you otherwise they wouldn't be talking to you. don't worry so much. be yourself. and if they don't like you then who cares. they weren't real freinds anyways

It is okay It is okay. Now rest in peace.

Sounds like you should consider Entertainment for a living. Isn't that how most comedians start? You should look into that!

Your seeking attention. You may have issues with yourself. You want to validate that you are cool by keeping people eyes on you.

You have a major ego problem coupled with a lack of self-esteem

Believe in yourself and as you mature you will find that those who are true to themselves are more at peace with the world

A little humility would not hurt either

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