Im so lost. life doesnt seem worth living..?
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Firstable, please dont ever consider suicide as an exit. If you do that, God will not be happy. Instead of that, you can make God happy if you follow him. All your problems will eventually fade. Consider that life is so short, and we need to enjoy it. Have you ever thought in a life after this one? Well, if you have God in your heart you will go to heaven and you will have no problems.
Now, stop everything that stresses you. Call your friends, family, and loved ones and try to relax. Dont go to work or whatever might be stressing you. Just stablish a plan in your life. Be happy and have your own family. Help others, and dont give up.
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YOU CAN DO IT! LIFE IS WhATEvER YoU WanT IT TO BE!
Admit yourself. They'll help you get some help. By the looks of it, you have somewhat serious depression. I know how you feel. Life feels as if it's pointless and has no meaning or direction. But listen, it will change. Please, get some help. It'll give you a new perspective on life. Maybe get involved with a beneficial project with helping people. It'll help.
Look in your phonebook for the crisis hotline and give them a call and tell them you want to talk to someone. They can help you out.
(Or you can look them up on line at http://www.411.com/)
It may not seem it at the moment, but you will get through this and be ok.
TMD
Admit yourself. You need help...if you can't find someone to take you to the hospital, call 911. That's what they're there for. You're depressed and desperate. Please, please call them for help. You can get past this and life can be good if you just get the help you need. God bless you.
Dying is final, and there is no going back, but I hear you loud and clear... You don't REALLY want to die, and that in itself is a great start!! Now, let's see how you can get the help you are wanting and deserve. I would suggest calling a hot line and they will refer you to a facility that can help. They use a sliding scale if you have no money. Transportation call probably be delt with as well. You could also ask to speak to your family physician personally. If you call, tell the nurse that you are in need of speaking to the doc personally as you are unable to come in due to transportation problems, but that you have an urgent problem, and need his advice. If she offers to help you, tell her it is too delicate a problem to speak to anyone but him/her. They will give the message to him. If you feel "panic'd", then call the hot line or have your doctor paged. Do not wait to get help, and don't be afraid to ask for it. Talk to your minister or priest,etc. or talk to a counselor at scool, if you are in school. The point here is, there are ways to get help, without money or transportation. The first step is acknowledging you need it, and then you have to really want it, the rest will happen whenyou take the first step, make the call. I have been there and thought noone was available to me, and I had no job, no money, and felt I had no friends. I was in graduate school, struggling to just make it to class. I don't knoe how I found my way to someone on campus, but I did, and they hooked me up with a grat pyschologist, who treated me everyday at no cost till I was stable, and throughout my 5 years there at 3 times a week, and never charged me anything. I am well, and have been for over 14 yrs. now, and I owe it to the school, and especially to him. Life is good, grab hold and run.
Call 911. While you're waiting, try to remember that God loves you. Pick up a Bible and start reading Psalms. Try praying. Psalm 50:15 says "And call upon me in the day of trouble: I will deliver thee, and thou shalt glorify me"
John 3:16 is a good verse too. Remember the song "Amazing Grace"? Was lost but now I'm found?
I'll pray for you.
if you feel like this please talk to someone. i lost my daughter 2 months ago.and i felt the way you are now.plus my brother took his life when he was 27.talk to god he will hear you and believe me he will help to.but please talk to someone and get the help .so you can find some Peace. thinking and praying for you. angel.
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self mutilation can be part of borderline personality disorder, with low mood and disturbed self image, you should really get some help, you can pay a visit to a state hospital, usually free of charge in most countries, or you can seek the help of a local church if you are a christian.
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If you have a phone at your disposal, PLEASE find a phone number to a Crisis Hotline, call them and tell them you have no money, no license, and no one to ask to take you to a hospital. Tell them you have relapsed, are feeling suicidal, and can they please help you?!? I'm sure they will waste no time picking you up and getting you the help you need, or direct you in the right direction. Please give someone the chance to help you. No matter how bad life seems (and believe me, I've "been there" (even "attempted") and "still" find myself there, every now and again (minus the attempting)), I still can't and don't believe that (suicide) is the "only way out". Too be honest, I realized what a "selfish" act it would be (not to make you feel worse than I know you already do), because though you may feel it's the only/easy way "out" and that nobody cares, you do and will hurt so many people by such a selfish act (such as family and friends). I'm sure there are people who care and people who love you. So please give yourself a chance at a better life, no matter now many times it takes. Getting the help you need can give you that. Getting better/being well can and will give you a totally different "outlook" on life. Be curious, for you never know what could be around the next corner . . . could be a lot of good things to come yet, but you'll never know if you just take it upon yourself to "check out" (from life). I hope you will take my advice. You sound like a troubled, but nice person, who just needs help. Pray and keep the faith, no matter how bad it gets, and just believe that you can turn your life around. I do (believe you can).
By the way, it seems despite not having other resources, that you do have a computer at your disposal. If this is true, try finding a "Crisis Hotline/Crisis Center" website to contact on line (especially if you haven't a way to call).
Be well, and much (good) luck to you. You will be in my thoughts and in my prayers.
I would throw away all of your sharp objects, while you're mad about cutting. And just surround your self with stuff to do, or friends. Don't let yourself get bored, and don't let yourself be alone. Thats what I do when I'm going to cut. Take a bath or shower (but make sure theres no razors in the shower/bath). That's what helps me.
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