Whats wrong with me?


Question:
i think i have issues since my mother passed i cant seem to get a grip on reality and i think i might have but its like a game...like life doesnt mean much to me anymore..not like ill kill my self or harming others with out being provoked...but its a strange feeling i no longer cry when i think of my mother and me and her where close she was my best friend .it was like a fews months back when she passed...i am parniod that people or talkn bout meall the time...and so much more whats wrong with me i cant even explain half th stuff im feeling
btw im 15 years old

Answers:
Hey man, I'm sorry about your loss. You need to find a grief counselor. Your school provides those for you (by law I'm pretty sure). You need to talk to someone who can help you sort out these feelings. If not the school, talk to someone at your church, your doctor's office, or somewhere like your local Big Brothers/Big Sisters. There are people who can help you. I know I'd try to be there for you if I was closer, man. Again, I'm sorry for your loss and I wish you the very best. Email me if you need to talk to somebody.
Later dude.
there is nothing wrong with u pal.its just a matter of time that u adapt urself to the unfortunate incidents that happened in the family recently.i advise u to channel ur energy into something recreational like books,games or studies.u not crying now for ur mothers death isnt strange,it just means that u are already adjusting to the situation,u have registered the truth in ur mind.so dont worry,u'll be alrite.
i understand,,,,,,,,, wats goin on wit u , see,,,,, now its only u who can get otta it, this is the time u may getin wrong path like smoking, stoning, drug,,,,,,,,,,, but trust me keep away from this, iam sure ul get out of it some times soon, go out with with ur friends,share ur shoulders express ur feel god in ur prayer and iam for sure his hands are on ur head the next movement, also pray for the sleeping soul of ur mom to rest in peace in gods name.. iam sure ul do it and ul be fine, god bles u bro,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, take care
hi there. my mom passed away some five years ago, but since then, i still haven't shed a tear for her. but this doesn't mean I am weird or something is wrong with me. Just try to get in touch with your feelings and do not be afraid to talk about them. This is one way of letting out all these pent up feelings. some people do not want to talk about issues like the one your having now because they thought that this is the best way of getting it out of their system.. but no. they are only trying to nurture the feeling that is the reason why some people could not move on after experiencing a hurt... go find someone you can trust a friend, a counselor, pastor, minister, priest, or teacher... try to talk about your mom from the time she was well up to time she passed away... try to explore your feeling... talk about these things -- no holds barred... this may not solve your concerns immediately because all you need is time... time to sort things out, time to realize that you did not die when your mom moved on to another phase in her life... I am pretty sure that your mom still loves you so much and that she would not want to see you like that... so try to make her happy by living a very healthy and meaningful life for others and for yourself...
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