Stalker problem?
Question:
When I realized his feelings towards me, I told him to forget about it. The problem is that he can't get over it. He told me he found my address and he's going to visit me and all that crap, he lives across the country. He's freaking scary, he keep following me and checking up on my page (my internet site), even though I am ignoring him.
Answers:
Hmm...
i had that problem before!!
but he was closer.
he said he was gonna kill him stuff && i didnt want him too,
so i cheered him up blahblah he liked mee.
yah.
wanted come see me.
asked wher i lived,
okay heres my advice
1)DONOT give your real name,address,number,etc
intil you know hes not meantally depressed,a perv,etc
i did this and almost got RAPED
so yah
2)comfront your parents.
we all hate this onee but,
its our life or being grounded possibly.
get ad&t cameras installed or something so if he comes later,
the police can see him.
also block him && tell your friends too!!
need anything else?
email me =]
Change your internet site.. Change your IM, your email... change everything!
If that doesn't work.. tell someone!
I have had that problem befor. While he is still in another state, they can't do much. But, as soon as he is near you, you can get an order of protection against im. Save all of you emails that you sent to him, and from him. Tell him that you will notify the police.
you should report him to the police if the problem gets out of hand
omg darlin!
you really need to be careful!
he could be dangerous ..
has he ever visited you at your home or actualy came to your neighbourhood
or has he said he is going too
bcos if he has fone the police..
he could harm himself or more importantly you..
and this guy needs to be caught and put in a mental home fast!
x
If the guy is a complete psycho, you might want to phone the police and see what your options are. If this guy is suicidal, he needs professional help because no matter how nice of a person you are, you can't help him really. It sounds like he is using you as some crutch in order to avoid seeing a doctor, and this is not healthy at all. I would call the police at least - they can refer you to a hotline with councilors that may be able to help you further.
if he already knows your address, i would report him. no matter what you do, hes going to go over to you. if he just starts to go overboard when you talk to him, report him.
Ask your neighbors to watch your house and if this guy appears then have them call the cops as a suspicious person. Or try threatning to call the police if he comes near you. I hope it helps!
I would suggest documenting anything he says that makes you uncomfortable and is threatening.
call the popo change ur email im phone number everything ermmmmm moving away is out of the question
Start taking a self defense class and carry a pocket knife with u, after that u wont have to be scared of anyone.
I agree with Regina. Sometimes when a lifeline has been extended to another through friendship and a true concern for them, this type of reaction will happen, I'm just sorry you got freaked out when he wanted to get closer.
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call police
Maybe he's doesn't have your adress, he said that for scary you. Anyway be aware and if he come to your house or near you call the police.
And never gives your personal details to anyone in internet.
The world is full of dangerous people.
Good luck,honey.
Seriously, this needs to be taken seriously. You need to contact your local police station. If anything happens they can track it. It isn't a big deal, like you would think to file a report. Really, it may save your life and sanity.
You call over the phone and tell them the issue and that you are trying to separate from this person.
You need to eliminate any means of contact you have had (email, phone #'s, name). Tell me you didn't give too much identifying info.
You may think it sounds off the wall to do this but It is NECCESARY.
I don't want to read about you and they do it.
I was stalked by an ex and it was the worst thing in the world. I am not kidding. They will hurt you if they have the opportunity!
wow am scared 4 u I had the same thing before i was really scared i just did not use my email anymore this is what u need to so to get rid of him change ur email or get a new one then tell him if he does not leave u alone ur going to call the cops save all the emails he send's u. Don't let him even near u I were u I know really let the cops know about this. He sounds really scary and n't stay in ur home stay with a friend some times ignoring him does not work best of luck honey
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