My boyfriend, just came out and he is so very much depressed, every thing is getting him way down the bills,?
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1. Your his partner mate, you shouldn't be talking about issues like that, only to a point.
2. He needs to do it for himself, if not, no point pushing him
3. sounds like, he needs to see someone, let it out, maybe see another family member or a best mate
4. if he does not do anything, it'll make it harder on the relationship, you dont want to see him down all the time, his with you, his meant to be happy and excited.
5. Don't leave it to late, try different things with him, you might have someone in your local area
Good luck with it mate, plus its part of life - Learning about life and wht it brings to ya :D
Sounds like a drama queen (no pun intended). Try and dismiss his crisis. When the negative no longer works on you, he will try the positive to get your reaction.
try to take him for a vacation. just you and him... maybe he can relax then and tell you his problem. try not to ask him about it, so he wont feel the pressure... and let him know that youre always on his side willing to help and be there all the time... good luck.
He just came out? Perhaps this is a huge thing for him? To most people it would be. Most would be reevaluating their relationships and their past and their family and going through a whole gammut of emotions. Give it a little while.
See depression treatments, at http://www.ezy-build.net.nz/~shaneris... on page 2: print/refer him.
Coming out is very difficult to do..he must let his mom mourn him so to speak. If he won't go to a therapist then go with him to gay support groups in your community. PFLAG is great and there are so many more groups available for you and your boyfriend. Check the local listings in your area and good luck! Remind him he is a brave man for coming out in stead of a coward for living with a woman and making babies while having affairs on the side. He is being true to himself!!
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