Why am I so insecure that..?
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I couldnt actually, i love my family/friends/pets too much to leave them and i dont want to go to hell but i just want it to end.. the pain it causes me really makes me want to die!
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Awww.. hun I'm sorry! I felt this way at times too. The best thing I did was accept and love myself for who I am. You are unique and your own person. Remember you are important, we all have things we don't like about ourselves but the best thing to do is to like ourselves for who we are not what we aren't. If there is something you want to change about yourself then do it, It takes time especialy if your talking about weight. I've been wanting to get down to a decent weight for my height, so I've been eating fruits and vegtables, especially celery and peanut butter I have lost 50 pounds and the celery and fruit seem to make me not hungry. I wish you luck! Change what you can and accept and be happy for what you can't. Remember you are smart and an Important person. keep your chin up! Hugs! Von
i wanted to do that also .BUT i started excersicing...AND i got my loved ones to support me and wen i excercise i kno that they are supporting me! i lost 7 pounds already! i was 127 now 120...im still doing it! dont give up! you can do it.!
look that is nothing to kill yourself over you should find a counselor or maybe talk to a physchiatrist or something...but instead of wanting to kill yourself why don't you work hard or ask someone to work with you in losing weight an other things that way you ca start loving yourself more and you'll be a better person and wont think so negative...but please dont think that you should end your life because think of it this way someone out there has it worst than you do.
It's like the others said. Fat is NOT permanent. You exercise it off. It'll be the hardest battle you may ever fight, but it'll give you an opportunity to strengthen yourself, mentally and physically. Think of it as your own war against weight. Only YOU can be the victor. Therefore you need to step up to the occasion. As for the fat that doesn't easily come off, or physical characteristics that are unfavorable, there are surgical procedures.
DO NOT under any circumstances be ashamed of plastic surgery. It is NOT a crime to fix irregularities (be it a lopsided face, crooked nose, mistmatched eyes, etc.), nor a crime to feel better about yourself. It IS a crime if it's done out of vanity (not that I personally have anything against the king of pop, but Michael Jackson, for example). If a change is what it takes to get you back on your feet, then there isn't a thing in hell that should stop you.
i saw a pic you had posted on another question. you are pretty, but i know you don't care about that really right now. you are depressed, so nothing matters. my feeling is you've got a chemical imbalance that can be treated with medication. i started on some many years ago, and was amazed when i was finally prescribed the right meds - it was like a 'switch' went on, and i finally felt normal. just realize that the agony WILL pass, give it time, and have patience when trying to find the right med.
Peace+
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