Hey im 53 yearsold virgin male,i never had sex in my life,and im afraid to dyin soon,tell me what to do?
i never had sex in ma life,i dont know what for,im not that ugly,but no female want to go out with me.im not that rich to pay women 400£ to make love with me.i could pay 100£ but all ladys refused me.i want to die,but i cant kill myself.i can wait to see death
iv got no family nothin,all of them far from me
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Answer:
It's no big deal. I'm the same age as you and haven't had that much sex. I've never had a relationship lasting more than a few months, although they have tended to be quite intense. I've also had a few casual encounters. However, now, I'm quite happy to be single.
I suggest you get this sex thing out of your system: a visit to Amsterdam or Thailand or maybe find a prostitute in your country (surely you don't need £400). Then get on with your life.
I just wonder if you're being a little bit choosy about women. I strongly suspect that there is some woman, somewhere, feeling the same way as you do. Having typed that I'm reminded of someone I knew in the past.
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theres always someone out there, just keep looking i guess, belive me, theres always SOMEONE!
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Join a dating agency. This will improve your chances of meeting a lady who has common interests as yourself.
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there has to be SOMEBODY that would! look harder and save more money. or try the make a wish foundation...just kiddin
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go to a lap dance club, mate it,s for everybody! and the women are beautifull and only a tenner dont mean to sound ! like these woman are cheap! they just sell you 5 min,s of happy time for a tenner, so go for it 1
I think you should get a therapist for your mind. It sounds like you feel empty inside and are hurting. You're depressed. There's something that you don't know about yourself that they can help you discover. Maybe you need confidence. Please never be with a prostitute. Have you ever thought of going to church? You can always seek God.
If I were you, I'd focus more on learning how to treat a woman. It's a lot about being totally unselfish and making her feel soooo special. Being kind and considerate and being romantic. Thinking of little ways to please her.
Do you have good hygiene habits? Do you shower at least once a day? Keep your facial hair trimmed or shaved neatly? Do you have bad teeth or bad breath? Do you dress neatly?
When you talk to a woman, smile at her and look her in the eye when you are talking to her or when she is talking to you. Open doors and be a gentlemen when the women are around. Learn to dance.
After you have all the above down in your head and understand it, THEN hit the dating scene. It won't be long before you find a woman who will appreciate you. When you do find her, don't rush her into sex. Give her some time and maybe wait for some signal she is definitely interested in deepening the relationship.
Good luck, and hang in there. Maybe if you go out and make some friends, someone in your friends group will hook you up with someone they know and you'll hit it off. Who knows.
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not bieng funny but dnt waste your time asking questions like this on the internet and get out there and find yourself a woman. maybey watch some kind of porno dvd first so you get some sort of idea of what to do. you dont know what your missing!! and dont talk about death and wanting to die,even if you didnt have sex it wouldnt be the end of the world,your time will come and if not enjoy life.
Look u must join a social singles club or something in your area. Start doing things with people of teh opposite sex, meet them and do activities with them and maybe u will start having nice conversations with them and that will lead to something. I am also a virgin male (but by choice) so i can understand a little about what u go through. Please join social groups right away
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go out on the town get drunk as a skunk and sow ya oats man