Is it pathetic if I miss my mother?
Question:
Answers:
Its not at all pathetic, its beautiful that we never out grow our love of our mothers touch!! If she's still alive go see her or call her if she is gone look at some of your old family photos and just let the tears come!
no
not at all.
is she still alive? thats normal go give her a hug
So why don't you see her? If you live far away at least give her a call.
just a little
no way!
no it is definately not pathetic. your mother will always be your mom and not seeing her for 4 years is a long time. I would feel the same way as you.
no your are no patheic we all feel lost sumtomes when we need that reasurance and nothing is more natural than wanting a parents love..gl matey.
Of course not it is perfectly healthy.
You are totally normal. I'm 35 and love my mother.
Nope. We all need our mothers. Why the 4 years apart?
Um.. why dont you visit her? Im sure you would feel much better.
no it not pathetic it just means you need to spend sometime with yourmpother it will all workout
No. It means you miss your mom. Nothing wrong with that - if I hadn't seen my mom for 4 years I'd miss her too.
Give her a call, go visit, find some way to get back together again.
If you had a good relation and she's still alive, heck no.
Not at all - especially if you haven't seen her in 4 years!
I think it's touching that you are close to your mother and miss her.
It's perfectly fine, especially if your feeling emotional at points, or if you've been through a lot! But you've hit a point where you want to be reminded what it was like to be a child and have a parent there for you, this is normal especially since you have not seen her for a while. Go and pay her a small visit! =D It might make you feel better!
Never ever would I think thats pethtic your mother is the one that raises you and knows you better then anyone.no matter what girls always get emotional and usually we turn to our mothers..I'm sorry you haven't seen her in 4 years it must be difficuilt I hope you see her soon !!
--Good Luck
That's completely normal---and sweet!!
no i feel that ANYONE could be able to do that if it is really needed.and who cares wut other people think do it anyways
aw no i don't think it is pathetic at all.
I'm 51 - my mom is 83 and lives in Florida. Sometimes I miss her terribly. When I see her we hug and kiss and hold each other for a very long time. And sometimes, when I'm very sad, nothing makes me feel better that hearingher voice on the phone.
It's not pathetic - it's lovely. You are very lucky to have a connection with her. I had lunch with someone last week who was an only child and was never close with her mother and felt she had really missed on on something important in her life.
Get off Yahoo and call your mom right now! :-)
Of course not. It would be pathetic if you don't miss your mom. No matter how old we get our feelings for our mothers are the same. Try visiting her, 4 years is a very long time.
Not at all. It is completely normal to miss your mother and desire closeness with her. I see my mother regularly and sometimes I just want my mommy! I am married with three children, and there are days when you just need your mother's comfort. She carried you for 9 months, and nursed you and comforted you in your early years and through out the first half of your life! Our brains have deep seated memory that we cannot even understand or consciously remember. Your brain is drawing on its natural memory of comfort from your mother and creating a physical desire for it. That is natural. You are not pathetic!
no...it's alright to miss someone you love.
Not at all.
awww my heart goes out to you. Why has it been 4 years since you have seen your Mother? Has she passed away or does she live far away from you or something?
Either way I believe it's always hard for children know matter what age you are, we will always want and need our parents. My husband and I live less then 10 minutes away from both sets of our Parents and yes sometimes they drives us nuts, but in reality I would not have it any other way.
If she is still alive then give her call or visit. I know she would love to see you! :) If she has passed away you could visit her grave site, write her a letter or something. Writing is good because it helps you to let out the anger, sadness that you might be feeling. I wish you all the luck and if you ever need to talk, I would be happy to give you my I.M name and we could chat from time to time.
I am a stay at home mom of three young children, my husband is in the Military. Seriously if you need someone to talk with I will listen, okay?
No, you obviously miss her, so this is normal when you miss a person.
It is not at all bad to want the comfort of your mother. Write her. Send a letter off every day for a week. Tell her why you feel like you need her comfort right not. There may be some things going on in your life right now that make you want to regress to the safety of your mom or you may just simply miss her. 4 years is a long time. It is actually a great thing that you and your mom are close even so far apart.
More Questions & Answers...