Have you?


Question:
Have you ever had one of your close friends/relatives die on your birthday?If so how have you handled it.One of my close frinds died on my birthday & it has never been the same since.That was nearly 10 years ago.

Answers:
Over the years, I have had a lot of my family pass away. My father and mother died very suddenly at different times, and also my elder brother. I don't really grieve at the time, and I think it is because I don't believe that it has happened. But a few days later that is when it hits me, and for a day or two, I really cry. My way of getting over it is that now and again I talk to them about my life, my thoughts, and keep them up to date on family affairs. By doing this, it makes me feel that they are still there with me, and I feel better for it. I hope this helps you too.
I am so verry sorry for you, but no.
No. But Im sorry too hear that. How about celebrating your birthday and your friends friendship on that day. Remember them and all the good things you guys shared together.and smile because you still have them in your heart.
I had a hamster die on my birthday. It was very traumatizing.
I've never celebrated my birthday in my entire life. To me a birthday is just a regular day.. I don't see how it could be otherwise.


But, with the friend dying.. I had two of my friends die... and I'm only 18. The more recent was only an acquaintance.. but still.. for someone so young to die shows me that my friends and I are not as immortal as we may feel at times.

My close friend died when I was 13 and when I think about that day, I get so upset and the feelings I felt back when I first learned that he died come rushing back to me.

I settle myself down by realizing that he's still with me in heart and spirit and he's waiting for me on the other side.
My mom died on the 31st of October; so when Halloween comes around it;s really sad..What makes ir worse is that i have her 10yr old foster son; and on halloween he;s always sad as so am i.I still get him to party;s and trick or treating.It took 3ys for him to start going again though,,,,
More Questions & Answers...
  • How do u know if ur depressed?
  • Anyone else think the thought of warm milk is gross?
  • Can I just tell, do I have to ask?
  • Is it true that if you dont sleep you'll crazy and if so why?
  • How do I put someone under hypnosis?
  • Help me!! Mental Problems?
  • Tomorrow, I am admitting myself to a phychiatrict facility. I've been feeling suicidal lately, as if I have
  • Bipolar question-to control symptons after being cured.?
  • Can you OD on strattera?
  • The consumer health information on youqa.com is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice or treatment for any medical conditions.
    The answer content post by the user, if contains the copyright content please contact us, we will immediately remove it.
    Copyright © 2007 YouQA.com -   Terms of Use -   Contact us

    Health Resources