What makes a person cold?
Question:
my father does not like that I am not emotional and that I don’t want him touching me (I am 21 year old guy I don’t want my father hugging and kissing me). he also says I am rude for telling the truth like the fact grandpa needs to die. grandpa is 80 and sleeps most of the day. he has had a hard life and his suffering needs to end.
my cousin on the other hand thinks I am just cold. mainly because she tells me thing that most people get emotional over but I don’t. in most cases I feel awkward when others are emotional or I feel nothing.
when I was little I was a happy kid, as a teenager I was very angry & violent minded(for no reason I can think of), but now I am just neutral to most every thing.
I also do mental exorcises that keep my temper down.
sience starting the exorcises i do seem to laugh more.
Answers:
Do you have any of these traits?
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if so read this link
http://www.sunfell.com/parttwo.htm...
I used to be shy and quiet, pretty much a loner- as I got older I began to have enough of people, experience and emotional stress changed me into a very blunt and to the point person, I say it like it is- I have low tolerance for ignorance, selfishness and in certain terms "bs".
I found out when i was in my early 30's that i was indigo- never being classified as ADD I often wondered if I was because though i was never really "cold" to anyone, I just didn't want to be bothered and still dont to a point.
If someone gives me grief, I ditch them from my life, no time for it, if someone is greedy and selfish, bye bye, see ya-
I don't like to be smothered or hugged much, it has to be when I feel like hugging or i push away.
read the links, they may help - if you are indigo this may allow you to better understand yourself.
what gets me is that some will say "oh that is just the way he or she is" but if I have an expression on my face, or don't kiss rear ends, I am a bad cold and rude person. This in itself makes you more prone to push away.
Watch the movie Beaches with Bette Midler. If you cry at the end then you are not cold.
You are psychotic. Before you get too upset about that let me explain. About 3% of everyone is psychotic, and it only means you can make decisions without feeling. As long as you have an ethical code this is not a problem. In fact would you want certain people to be overcome with emotions when they have to make decisions. CEOs, firefighters, soldiers, police, paramedics. I would rather have my life in these people's hands than someone that would not be able to do their job because their emotions status.
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