My friend and i had a fight and..?
Question:
And she says if i talk to her anymore she'll put me up for harrasment at school.
Now my other friend, says she wont talk to either of us until we are friends again, but we wont be freinds again, i can tell, this is different than all the other fights we've had.
And, now i have a a whole to friends left, that i always come last to.
I hate my life!
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whats the question? just try to talk to her or yell at her till she wants to talk again
DO NOT hate your life. You were put on this planet for a reason...your soul was given a body because it has a purpose. Don't you ever say that again. Look, people are people. Friends come and go; life is not about them. Life is about you and finding YOURSELF. You don't need that other girl if she's willing to treat you that way. You are not the one at fault; you're the better person because you went to apologize and she chose not accept you apology. As for the girl who won't talk until you're friends again, she will talk, so just don't worry about her. She's not that big of a deal, and once she sees that you guys are not willing to come back together, she will make her own decision; just respect that and respect yourself and move on.
Seriously she not your friend, everybody fights but the best thing about someone u care for is that they will always be there
Don't Hate your Life. What happens, happens. If either of those friends were really friends, then they wouldn't have allowed such a petty problem get in the way of Friendship. Anyways, this hatred won't last too long, because even the worst of problems end quickly in social life when you are young. Just Move on and seek friends who really are good Friends.
Just try to talk to her, if she wont let you, its her own fault. She will feel bad and then come running back to you. Remember, ive had soo many friends, being grow up and just move apart. its natural.
friends come & go... but real friends always stay thru thick & thin... give youre friend a time to get over... if she values your friendship. she will come back or befriend you again
Don't hate your life. All you need to do is write a note or letter to her saying why you're sorry and why you want to still be her best friend. Tell her how much you care about her. List past events that you both had fun at doing, tell her you're going to miss all those things and new fun things. I did this to my bestest friend ever when we had a huge fight and it worked. Tell her (at the end of the note/letter) to please write you back and tell her feelings to you.
Well, be persistant...Does she really need you? And if that's the basis of her idea of friendship, apparently she's just there to use people. Your other friend, the one who won't take sides, is actually worsening the problem; Of course, I don't know the entire story. Don't hate your life, though...Makes you emo...or worse...a fundamentalist.
She is your friend for telling you that you are an outsider. It means you need learn the social rules for greeting and interface and the second vocabulary. Give her space and work on your own skills. You can never lose what you never owned .
First things first if you are feeling suicidal please call a suicide hotline or go to the ER immediately. It may mean a short term stay in a hospital but they aren't scary places. They'll help hook you up with a therapist and he/she can help you develop skills so you can gain more friends. You may also be able to bring your friend into therapy to sort your differences out in a neutral supportive atmosphere.
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i was in a simliar position. just grad h.s. trust me, this person doesnt ccare about you and you shouldnt care about her either. this total lowlife who i used to be friends with called me **** too, but it didnt get to me because she is an idiot. we both fought a lot over stupid ****, lol, but we had this fight and we knew it was over. anyway, she pointed out about me being a loner too, so i know what it was like, but i was happy, not sad when we stopped being friends. it was like a huge weight lifted off my shoulders and chest. think about your frienship. was there more fighting than actually being friends? did you think to yourself more, "i have to get out of this friendship" than "im happy bbeing friends with her"? if so, then you know the best decision is to not be friends with her. it may suck at first, but you will get used to it. this girl is a cu*t. she wants to put you up for harassment? ****ole she is. anyway, i suggest you make other friends outside school, or become friends with some of the other smart girls in your school. join the brainy clubs. and email me ok?
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