Help I have a big problem!!!?

Question:

I have a problem that I need some help with. I am Bipolar and have herniated discs in my back. My husband yelled at me tonight because I took my meds for the Bipolar and a pain pill for my back. The problem is that he is an alcoholic and drinks daily. He came home at 12:00am and I was sleeping all over the bed I guess and he got mad. He is just having his first beer and I don't drink. What is the problem here? He keeps accusing me of being a drug addict even though he is an alcoholic. I have to take these pills for the Bipolar Disorder and I am in pain all day long and try not to take anything to it. However I have a physical therapist and she says that my back is getting worse. What do I do he is on a ranting rampage about it. He seems to forget that when he gets ripped on the booze that he pees the bed. Help me out please.

Answers:
hunny you gotta help your self cause no one eles is going to, if ur in pain take the meds. And he sounds like hes definatly not helping you get better in anyway. If he truely loved you he would suport you and he certainly wouldnt want you to be in pain all day. Dont listen to him hes a drunk! Do what you think you need to do to get better both physicly AND mentally you ow it to yourself. Hes the addict not you, no one perscribed him the boose.

it sounds to me like he is borderline abusive, partly brought on by the alcohol. you should talk to your psychiatrist/psychologist who prescribed you the bipolar meds. maybe try to get your husband into marriage counseling or AA

get a life and boot him out if he doesn't respect your disorders that are not something you caused he causes his problems wit h drinking he feels better when he does these things and makes you feel unworthy if you are going to stay with him go to an alanon group they are great and helpful

Dump the drunk

If hubby won't admit he has a problem (AA or counseling) then you need to make the biggest decision of your life.
It will be hard, I know, I did it two years ago. But he is not helping anything by being a drunken butthole.
If he won't go to counseling, go by yourself. This will at least help you boost your self esteem and figure out what you want out of life.
I am a much happier person now without a drunk in my life. I just found out the ex quit drinking recently because of health problems. He now thinks we will get back together--HAH!

Stay away from him! For a while or go move in with your family or trusted friend till you get better! Maybe invite a friend or family member to stay with you until you get better! You are seriously recovering from an injury and need help bad! Also you could find someone else if he's abusive don't take the abuse! I hope you'll stay away from him and stay safe until things get better for you!

I'm sure your back problems are getting no better because of the stress your husband gives. You are living in hell with the devil himself. I'm sorry to hear you ended up in such a predicament. I suggest you leave this guy without a doubt. I think you just want to hear it from others. If he doesn't want you to leave then do it while he is at work. Get family & friends to help. God bless.

Lose the lush.

Help I have a big problem!!!?

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