I am so depressed...?

Question:

I've just started a job today and it was so stressful. I do want to quit the job right now but I can't do that as I need a job. I felt that the colleagues didn't like me at all and were not satisfied with my performance. I want to go back to my home country and live with my family, but the situation doesn't allow it to happen. I just got married and we are from different countries. I love him so much but I feel homesick so much. In addition, I am still not confident in speaking English at all even though I have been in Australia for about 4 years. I am too nervous to talk to a stranger as I speak Enlgish with an accent. I am so sad and stressed right now, what can I do?

Answers:
I know the feeling,,, Ive been there, since it was only your first day try to give your colleagues some time to adjust and to know you and all newly employed get stressed since you are new to the company. being stressed out during your first day at work is very normal.

About you being homesick, that's normal try to talk about it with your husband, and getting a divorce is not the answer to your problem.

Don't be shy to be your self, just like the others are saying be confident and you know who you really are, and the fact that you got the job that means you can handle it.

be yourself! =] dont try and be sumone ur not.. speak how YOU speak.. just keep ur chin up and be confident!

good luck x

I mean this with kind and true intent.

Take a book out on meditation. and meditate every day.

And as you meditate , think of questions and in your calmness, recieve the answers that come to mind.

I have faced what u did. i even married someone in another country and moved there.

We didnt work out, and i came back here, and for the jobs, ive had the same problem, and ended up leaving , for i wont stay where i am not wanted.

i would rather love life and be poor as i am, then feel bad and live well.

You're not confident in speaking English but you can write it perfectly and with correct grammar? I'm calling shenanigans on you. This is a BS question. But if it's not here's what you do. Quit your job, get a divorce, move back to whatever third world country you are from and be a prostitute. Shucks, that's what Jackie O would do.

I feel for you. It's too bad that you feel this way. Have you talked to your husband about how you feel? Are you able to talk to family through the Internet? And don't worry about not being able to talk properly in English... I know several English speaking people who should go back to school and learn how to speak properly. Myself... sometimes I spend too much time with my cats and that means sometimes I talk to others like I talk to my cats. I sincerely wish you all the best and good luck to you.

be yourself and do the best you can when you are at your job. when you are at home, relax and try not to worry about work.

thats so sad, I suggest that you talk to your husband and let him know...you both can sit down and figure out whats next but if you want to releive the stress. start smoking cigs or drinking wine

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