A Sin Teasing mee!?
Question:
Since the day tht sin comes in mind suddenly and disturb me... then i want to cry why i committed thissssss.... plz tell me hw i can come out of this guilty.
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We all make mistakes and we all sin in one way or another. Hun! You have to forgive yourself! Tell your self that your sorry, and that you wish you wouldn't had done it. Then tell yourself but you did, you realize now it was a mistake and forgive yourself and move on. You will always remember it but you won't have to dwell on it no more after you forgive yourself. Really forgive yourself! We all make mistakes, its a part of life! Begin thinking positive that you learned a valueable lesson about life. You will now be able to improve yourself, because you won't ever do it again. Remember you are an important person. hugs!
Well first you need to ask youself, why did you feel the need to have sex with another woman, let alone pay for it.
Are you more ashamed at cheating or paying for sex?
Confused. Years and years ago I had sex with several prostitutes. That was in the good old days before AIDS.
There are places you can go to get yourself checked out to make sure you are "clean". I would not have sex with your girlfriend until you are sure you're ok. Don't compound the problem by possibly passing something on. That would be a real sin.
Time will heal the sin of going with a prostitute.
Good luck my friend
Sounds to me like it is one of those cut your losses type of deals. Everyone is human and lapses in poor judgement can happen. Why havent you touched your girlfriend? Is it a religious type if thing? That makes mo sense to me. You can pay for sex, but pre marital sex with the person you lov is a no no? Just try to forgive yourself and learn your lesson. If it happens again, then you probably shouldnt be in a relationship.
I don't know what kind of "belief" system you have, but you need to get one...I believe that if you confess that sin "He is faithful and just to forgive us of that sin" (1 John 1:9). That means confess it and forget it...guilt and regret are sins too..so this torment you are feeling needs to be forgotten. You are no better off worrying about it. You cannot change the fact it happened..nor can you worry enough about it to make yourself feel better. Just like a basketball player rebounds the ball after it goes out of bounds..so does a person who has sinned..you need to rebound...confess that known sin and forget about it and keep moving.
Best of luck to you. I put a site in the source area if you are interested in learning more about sin and forgiveness. If not then I hope you can have a way for you to release your woe's.
There are thousands and thousands of taped sermons and all of it is free for anyone who wishes to learn more about God and our relationship with him.
We all make mistakes and learn lessons from them. This was just one of lifes many lessons, so don't feel guilty anymore. You can't go back and change anything. Start today, afresh and move forward having leaned something again. Learning is fun, but it often hurts us temporarily. Don't beat yourself over, just don't do it again and you'll be ok!
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