I really need some help. I don't understand myself anymore.?
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You can't give up because things are getting rough.
We all have rough times, and sometimes we all feel overwhelmed by them, but know that it will not last forever.
It just sounds like you have a lot on your plate, but you aren't required to have a perfect answer and/or solution for everything. Why don't you try taking one step at a time.
Allow yourself to take a breather. Everything can't be wrapped up in a neat package, all we can do is take what life brings our way and do our best.
And don't be so hard on yourself. But, if you find that you've been feeling like this a long time and it's not getting any better, you may be suffering from depression. If that is the case, or you're not sure, then talk to a Doctor or Therapist. Depression is a real illness just like anything else, but it can be treated. Often times depression is accompanied by feelings of hopelessness, or the feeling of being overwhelmed. It's a lot more common then people realize, and is nothing to be embarrassed by. So, look into this just in case.
In the meantime, know that you'll make it though this!
hmmmmm..... i dont know...... maybe your getting depressed.... or maybe your just changing
Make some changes in your and find what it is that makes you happy and less overwhelmed. Change can be fun! A new adventure. Good luck!
What where you looking for when you took interest in those things? Sometimes we outgrow or have satisfied the need and like a tool have no use for them any longer.. Do not stunt yourself, it is normal to evolve.
Any relationship is complicated. What about a relationship do you find particularly complicated right now?
How is being wiccan complicating your life? You can always change religions.
Love Jack
You just have to do what feels right to you, because if you try to do otherwise you're not going to be happy... figure out want you want and go for it, and don't worry about the stupid labels like "bi," "gay," and "straight" that our society is so obsessed with. Everyone's life is hard, you just have to do the best you can with what you've got.
What is happening to you?
You're getting tired of the same old thing. I think you want more out of life.
Don't force yourself to do things.
Now as for you being bi. I'm bi too, and believe me when I say: Sexuality isn't black and white.
Nobody can say point blank: "I'm gay," "I'm straight" or "I'm bi"
because people change.
Now being wiccan, that being complicated for you, maybe you should give up. you can't be tied down by a belief system forever. If your belief system is causing you to stress, than maybe you should consider dropping it.
As everyone else said, you should change things in your life. But only change to an extent that will make you happy. Don't change yourself for anyone but you.
Try things out.
You only live once.
Expirience things.
And good luck.
When I was younger, I was bi. I actually thought that maybe I was a lesbian for quite a while, as girls were alot more attractive to me than boys. The older I got, the less I had these tendencies. I still find women attractive, but not in a overtly sexual way. It is normal to go through changes. It takes a life time to figure out who you are.
continue to be good to yourself and your fellow man. don't let it confuse and overwhelm you because the more you learn the more will understand how little you know. take time by yourself for introspection so you can look in instead of up or down. love deeply, forget prejudice, offer hope, sing in the shower. try not to complicate things. lifes most important truths are simple. ---mchlbrink--- good luck!
Maybe u try to hard I'm a straight guy whose into magic though not a dedicated wiccan and i don't understand myself either and at this point maybe it makes sense to just go with flow i over analysis and it upsets me no end i am best when i just be/do which sounds corny does not always work but also can be helpful i hope
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