Stress overwhem ,worry?


Question:
The above I'm dealing with at my job I know my job pretty much but I have one issues I just ca'nt comperhend it, and it is worry me to. I ca'nt stand myself why do some of us have comperhension and most people do'nt I'm 45 yrs. of age and have had comperhension since gread school. I try so hard I hate that I have this learning disablity I fill that people that are smart just do'nt under stand I get angry as there is a lot of people have the smarts and do'nt use it and myself I try so hard and when I dont get it I worry and I HATE IT""""Any information that can give me a peace of mind and to calm down will be very much apperiated.And is ther any resource out ther that can be helful? Thank,Renay:)

Answers:
* RELAXATION TECHNIQUES

o Recognize what activities you consider relaxing.
o Be specific when exploring your options:
–going for walks
–meeting with friends
–reading for pleasure
–listening to music
–taking a bath
o Be realistic about the amount of time that you can dedicate to "downtime".
o This time should be incorporated into your daily routine.
o Remember this is called BALANCE- not be used as a procrastination tactic.
o Begin practicing relaxation techniques
–meditation
–guided imagery
–deep breathing exercises
–progressive relaxation (muscle relaxation)
o Decide which relaxation technique works for you and practice daily.
o Find several techniques that work for you so you have an array of options.

* STRESS MANAGEMENT TECHNIQUES

BODY:

o Along with improving your ability to relax, you must assess diet and other strains on your body.
o Aerobic exercise can reduce anxiety up to 50%.
o Good nutrition (a well balanced diet) will improve your ability to appropriately respond to stress.
o Get an adequate amount of rest each night.
o Reducing caffeine intake will help you manage your anxiety (2 ½ cups of coffee doubles the epinephrine level).
o Smoking cessation is important, as nicotine is also a stimulant.
o Biofeedback techniques can help up to 80% of migraine sufferers.
o Acupuncture has also shown promise.

MIND:

o If you have multiple stressors (deadlines, increased responsibilities), you must prioritize your time.
o Initiating a time management schedule remains a positive way to reduce stress and anxiety.
o Break large demands into small, manageable parts. Work through one task at a time.
o Do what needs to be done first, leaving other things for tomorrow.
o Identify your goals and work toward them.
o Take direct action when stress arises- identify your needs and articulate them; Be intentional about what you can do.
o Acknowledge your thoughts and feelings concerning the stressors in your life.
o Develop a support network to rely on in times of need.
o Remember to be kind to yourself and not dwell on the "shoulds".


RECOMMENDED READINGS:

o Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff…and It’s All Small Stuff New York, NY: Hyperion, 1997. Carlson, R.
o The Relaxation and Stress Reduction Workbook Oakland, CA: New Harbinger, 1988. Davis, M., Eshelman, E., & McCay, M.
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Hi, Renay,

The thing to remember is that everybody has learning disabilities, just in different areas. The other people are lucky. They either got help for theirs when they were younger (due to good luck), or they have one that doesn't interfere with their job.

You are to be CONGRATULATED!! You are WILLING TO WORK!! You are NOT on the dole. You are working hard to overcome your problem. GOOD FOR YOU!

Adults with learning disabilities can go to clinics for tutring, if you have enough money. You can go to community college pretty cheaply, for Study Skills or Reading Comprehension classes. You can ask if you job has an Employee Assistance Program, for some free counseling, just to reduce your stress about the issue. You can join the Learning Disability Association, for information and support. They send newsletters and things, for about $35-$45 per year. You can join one of those Yahoo! support groups called "Daily Support" or something...look on the Yahoo! home page under "Groups". They have groups for all kinds of people to share info. & hugs & support, even daily.

Hope this helps. Remember, you are working TWICE as hard as the others, and you still work. GOOD FOR YOU!
If relaxing and stress techinques are not helping you out . I suggest you try bliss or anti stress pills. I have been using these for 3 yrs now and they work. I work in a fast pace work enviroment.

Heres teh website and information on both stress managemnet pills.



Bliss: Anti-Stress Formula
Do you find that when you get stressed, even the simple things in life tend to overwhelm you, causing your heartbeat to speed up and your blood pressure to rise? Or maybe your reaction to stress is to withdraw and grow sullen. Sometimes, you just wish you could push through the stress without experiencing the highs and lows that can accompany it.

Single Bottle (30 day supply) 13173 $35.00
or you can try

Transitions Anti-Stress Formula
Do you find that when you get stressed, even the simple things in life tend to overwhelm you, causing your heartbeat to speed up and your blood pressure to rise? Or maybe your reaction to stress is to withdraw and grow sullen. Sometimes, you just wish you could push through the stress without experiencing the highs and lows that can accompany it.

Description Code Qty
Single Bottle (30 Day Supply) 13175 $35.00
Check out ( http://www.reducingstress.net )
They have good information to help with stress.
Stress can arise for a variety of reasons. Any change in our lives can be stressful. In dealing with stress, the lifestyle needs a complete overhaul. We should be placed on an optimum diet, and take regular exercise and adequate rest. Check out http://sumiram2006-stressfree.blogspot.c... for more info.
Hypnotherapy is a wonderful way to relax, combat stress and to get good quality sleep.
You can be taught self hypnosis by going to see a Hypnotherapist or get a self help CD (or download)
http://blog.hypnosisdownloads.com/?879..

You will find a lot of useful information on the following pages http://www.hypnotherapistregister.com/st...
The benefits can be enormous. Good luck.
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