I want to cry all the time?
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I am soooo sorry you feel this way. I have not felt exactly as you have explained you do but i did suffer from post natal depression after my first child. I didnt want to admit that i felt depressed and tried for so long to act like everything was ok but really i knew it wasnt. You have taken the step to acknowledge that you are not feeling your usual self which is good. You MUST go visit your GP as depression is caused by chemicals on the brain and does not go without medication. I was prescribed Anti depressents but i was wary about taking them with all the speculation surrounding them but they really helped me! My course only lasted 3months and i have never looked back and gone on to have 3 more children. I am sure you are loved dearly by many family members and friends and it is the depression that is causing you think and feel this way. Please may i ask your age? Please dont do anything silly. You have to be strong and you WILL come through it.
If you have problems you need to share them with your family and friends , email me at need-help-with-life@hotmail. com if you need any help.
I think you should see your doc. Sounds as if you are depressed. If you can afford it go see a psychologist too, always helps to give some perspective. xxx keep your chin up!
Really.. i moved to a different country because of poverty when i was only 12. I had no friends because i coulnd't speak english. I don't even know who my real father is. Well, i do i just don't want to remember the abusive asshole. My mother and i grew apart because of life. We always loved eachother and eventually started talking more. Money is good now and we live in a nice house. I started from trash and worked my way up to a palace. I have a good boyfriend now to. I never felt like jumping infront of a car. I felt like crying, but i would never imagine leaving this world for everything i worked hard for. My mother wouldn't be able to live without me nor would i without her. Please don't plead how depressed you are. You just have no motive to move on. Pray a lot and God will help you like he helped me. Don't suspect change in a day though. Work hard to get out of your pittiful adittude. Please grow up. If you choose to jump infront of a bus, well thats an instant ticket to hell. Would you like to burn in hell? It's worse then depression. I'm very religious so i boleive in that. God wants to help everyone that is depressed, but if they don't comunicate with him he can;t. if they commit suicide they are in the devil's hands and God can't change their decision.
GET off your *** get a box of KLEENEX'S and quit watching the soaps.. It's Called LIFE.
You certainly sound very depressed and a bit sorry for yourself- there are lots of people so much worse off then you. Life is what we make of it. You need to start looking at caring more about yourself and loving yourself before you can expect others to love you. You cannot change not having a dad, but you can work on your relationship with your mum- sit down and tell her you would like to improve it because its currently making you ill. Start to think about your future in terms of changing your own life. We cannot depend on other people for our happiness- we have to make our own- so start by looking for some new hobbies and making some new friends. You can go to see your GP also who will arrange for some counselling- anti-depressants are not a good route because most of our problems we can solve- our destiny and our happiness is our own hands. Good Luck.
I don't want to cry all the time but I often feel very depressed and pointless a lot. My life isn't going into the direction that I want it to and besides my family, I feel like living is kind of pointless. So in a sense, I feel what you're going through.
I do have hope though. I don't believe in God (not much, anyway) but I have hope for the future, and I feel that if I hold on longer, things just might get better. I'm hoping the same for you.
But for now, suck it up and ask your mom to help you get to a doctor because you may be depressed. If you don't think she'll help, then call your doctor yourself and ask for help.
Good luck, sweetie!
:)
Hey Come on pretty Girl. Don think tht u r useless... u r an important person... u know God sent us in this world for a specific reason... Actually we are living a materialistic life and v havn really thought abt wht God is demanding from us. wht i want to tell u is... Figure out why v r sent in this world...perhaps not to kill ourselves, not to giv ourselves any kind of Harm... so, the actual reason for which v hav been sent to this world is to satisfy the God, create a spiritual connection wid God... now this connection can be made by different ways... Honor ur elders... do good things... don do any bad... don lie etc etc... I don knw which believe system u have but i will advise u to study ISLAM and see how beautiful ISLAM is and how much satisfaction and protection u will find in this Religion.
Always remember there is something that GOD wants u to do in this world... so, search that something.
Wish u a happy and prosperous life.
Go to the doctor and get some anti deppresants and they will help.You have to look on the bright side of life,think of people who are less fortunate then yourself.I have had feelings like this and only you can snap out of it,do something amazing with your life.Because you only live once and do something you have dreamed off.I left my life in England to live in Thailand for 9 months and all my problems were forgot.Dont sit in your room unhappy do something you want and enjoy life for your own sake.What would you feel if you didnt have a home,food and the chance to do as you please.
it really does sound like depression.
see your Dr. mine was really good, but this is about you.
Your Dr will ask you a few questions known as the depression screening questionnaire, and will discuss ways of moving forward with you.
Such as counselling, cognitive behavioural therapy, or medication. they will be very supportive a lot of people experience depression so please do not feel that you are alone. you'll soon be feeling like life is worth living again, because it is, although it probably doesn't feel it at the moment.
people do care, me for one!!
You poor thing.Try talking to a grown up you get along with,like a relative or a friends mum & get yourself off to see the doctor.Things do really seem bad at the moment but with a little bit of help you can get over this.Lots of people,myself included have felt like you do but have got better.Take care babs :o)xxx
Hi,i know how you feel.I am in a similiar situation,my mom and i have a horrible relationship also.And everytime i talk to her,she just fusses at me. I've even thought of suicide(jumping in front of a car or bus),but changed my mind quickly,as i know you will no doubt,also.When you think of jumping in front of a bus,it is going to Hurt So Bad,then you'll end up worst than before,you'll be in a wheelchair,then you'll have to depend on your mom 24/7.If you think of suicide,there's always a chance that you would survive,which could mean broken leg(s),arm(s),ribs or being paralyzed.Which to me is worst off than your current situation.I'd rather be independant,live life Well,Stay healthy,drink lots of water.Good Luck
I've battled clinical depression for eleven of my twenty years on this planet, and what you just described makes you sound an awful lot like me, sweetie.
I know you feel like "jumping in front of a bus"...but it's not worth it. I tried committing suicide more than once before I finally gave up and realized that things would eventually get better...or at least slightly more bearable. I'm not going to tell you to turn to God for help, or to study any religion like other people have, because sometimes...sometimes religion just makes it worse. If you have a strong faith, then go ahead, and I hope that it does help you. But regardless, you do need to see a doctor soon. Or at least a therapist...someone you can talk to so you can get things off your chest. Try calling a suicide hotline...or if you like, you're more than welcome to contact me. I know how it feels to think that your life is a waste.
It's not though.
Good luck, sweetie.
Stop crying and start laughing,,,because the only persons you are hurting is yourself and mother,,,,has Ive said before on here ,,,take a walk into a children's hospital,,,,those who are sadly suffering,,,,,and say to yourself,,,Why Am I Crying,,,,,
Sorry your not feeling too good!...
I think many of us often ask ourselves "whats the point"...its one of the questions that seems to resolve anything!...
I cant say i know what its like to not have a dad however i can say its his loss!...And as for having a bad relationship with your mother...do you know the reason why?...Have you always had a bad relationship with her?...Could it be because the way you are feeling is making you turn against the people closest to you?...
Your best bet is to go to your GP and explain to them exactly how you feel...tell them you "feel like jumping infront of a bus"...tell them you think you are depressed!...They should be able to help by either giving you some medication or offer some councelling...just a little pick me up could do you the world of good!...
Feel free to email me if you want to chat...
Take care and stay strong!...
Xox...
Please go and see your doctor. I felt like this and I am now taking medication for Depression and it really, really does help. They will also advise you on other help, such as seeing a Psychologist, which would also help you a lot too as sometimes it's good to talk to someone you don't know, but who is a professional. Go and see someone and tell them how you are feeling, don't hold back, I did for years and it didn't get me anywhere. Now my life is good and I am happy and content.
Your symptoms are due to hormone imbalance and are on Miriam Brazel's list
http://www.ylcf.org/hormone-imbalance/06...
Stress may have caused the hormone imbalance and hormone imbalance can manifest itself as your symptoms
http://uk.geocities.com/willim_walker@bt... see page 08 Stress
During any period of prolonged stress cortisol blocks the progesterone receptors causing hormone imbalance
http://www.natural-progesterone-advisory...
Depression and natural progesterone
Background on Depression
The causes of depression are not fully known. It is possibly a combination of genetic, biologic, and environmental factors at work. In women, the female hormones estrogen and progesterone most likely play a role.
Women experience depression at roughly twice the rate of men.
One in five women can expect to develop clinical depression during their lifetime. Regardless of age, race, or income clinical depression can occur in any woman, and can be serious enough to lead to suicide.
Depression is second only to high blood pressure as a chronic condition encountered by primary care physicians. It is estimated that 10% of people who visit their physician suffer from major depression, although it in most cases it goes unrecognized or inadequately treated.
Depression is an illness that can afflict anyone, and it is sometimes referred to as the common cold of mental illness.
# # # # this is just a taster see the whole article
http://www.natural-progesterone-advisory...
Both sexes need progesterone just about everywhere in the body. We need it to prevent osteoporosis, to prevent problems in the brain. The brain concentrates progesterone to to 20 times that in the blood. It doesn't do that for no reason. We need it to protect the nerves it is needed to form the Schwann cells etc ...
This is the link to my web page regarding hormone tests
http://uk.geocities.com/willim_walker@bt... 80 Hormone Testing
1 do an on line hormone test http://www.johnleemd.com/store/resource_...
2 do an appropriate saliva test and obtain results
3 get the results & discuss with a NPIS doctor or educate your GP/MD
search the web for “natural progesterone depression” and you will find many pages
You may come across success stories similar to those on my web page As you can see others have been down this path and resolved their difficulties
I hope this helps begin answer your question. It will take time but you can get there :-))
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