I need some help here can you help me out???


Question:
A few months back I took in a 22 year old guy that was homeless. I felt sorry for him and he appeared to be a nice kid. Well recently he has been totally disrespecting me by doing things that I could get into trouble for. I have told him constantly told him to not have more that two of his friends here at a time. I come home from seeing my own children and find my house filled with young adults smoking pot. I have asked this kid and asked him not to let people in my house and not to be smoking pot with them in my house. Well he decided that the back yard would be a better place to do it. I look in my backyard a few days ago and I have a backyard full of kids around the table. Well last night took the cake. I came home from taking my grandson to the doctor because he is sick. I walk in my door and my house is FULL of kids 22 and under. I looked at the mess turned around and walked out t sit on the porch to cool off. Well finally they all left. When I was sitting there one of

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It would be so wonderful if we could take in all those who need help. Unfortunately, we can't and there is a reason for it. You are going to have to move him out. You can tell him you've given him every opportunity to straighten up, but that it's your house, and you won't be run over for trying to be good to him. Good Luck. :)
Call the cops next time he gets on your property.
You brought it on yourself by taking him in. Now throw him out and change the locks. Then call the cops and let them know what's going on so they can watch your house.
tell him he has to leave. make him move out and don't let him back.
Call the police and what he is doing should be punished as it is a health issue.
I have heard similar stories from people who take in homeless people. Of course you need to kick him out. Do you really need me to tell you that?
I don't like calling the cops on people, but if he won't cooperate then you may not have much choice. I wouldn't want him to get busted for anything more than a small quantity of pot. That should keep him away. If you know that he has something more serious, you may want to get a more persuasive friend to help you out. What I mean is, if the police find meth on him or something he may go to jail for a long time. I don't think you really want that. But a small quantity of pot will get him into enough trouble so that he should leave you alone. It's better though that, if you don't have the balls to get him out, that you get an aggressive friend to help you. Calling the cops is a last resort, if the guy is stubborn.
kick him out, change the locks, and set him up with a place at the homeless shelter.
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