What has made you a cold-blooded person and vulnerable?
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A person who feels vulnerable will often become cold blooded to try to protect themselves from hurt. Vulnerability is usually caused by things in their background, in early childhood or later, that make them afraid to trust the world because it's hurt them before. So they decide they just won't react to things at all and think that this will mean they aren't hurt by them. Doesn't work, of course, but they keep trying till they decide to get help.
hurting my feelings all the time...
If you are considered a cold blooded person you are not considered vulnerable. Cold blooded to me means you don't care how your actions affect others.
everyone. im always worried about others' feelings, and their emotions, when no one cares about mine.
so why should i care anymore?
I'm not cold blooded at all. You probably aren't either, just a little bitter or jaded maybe. Vulnerability comes from lack of trust in people and surroundings.
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vulnerable I'm not...it's assshole's who make me clod blooded.towards only them
I am cold blooded which means I will NOT allow anyone to get close enough to me to hurt me
I'm NOT Vulnerable
I'm not cold-blooded since I am a human. When my blood becomes cold, I will be dead. The same human essence -having blood in my vessels and my heart that keeps it circulating - makes me vulnerable.
As for the real meaning of your question, well... I heard how some people were compared to either a crab or a bear. You know, a crab looks tough and has a hard cover. Yet, if you break it, it's soft inside. However, a bear is soft on the outside, yet very strong and tough inside. I prefer the bear. If you look soft to people, they may feel safe with you, they may trust you. With that, if you possess the inner strength, you yourself will be safe from being hurt.
Thus I don't like those two words being applied to people - cold-blooded or vulnerable (yet, I believe it's ok to be both). I'd rather say strong and compassionate. And, I'm not saying that I'm all that. I hope to be more and more everyday, and what helps me is my faith.
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