I love an older man help me please...?
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well i think that u need to hit up some young guys first before u decide a 44 year old is good
If he loves you and you love him, then go for it. Don't let your fears control your life. However, do NOT "make him try to take care of you". Down that path you will find disaster.
Honey, if he is 44 his best sexual days are already over! It is only downhill from here on out! If you are happy go for it.
And all you old geezers can save your thumbs down because you know I speak the thruth!
if you truly love each other the sex wont really matter. But why would kidney problems impede you from satisfying him? i say go for it, if you are really in love all will work out. and remember age is just a number, don't worry about that.
I used to be with an older man, and there may be not-so-positive reasons you're with him. You really might be wanting a father-figure, to take care of you.
He's an adult, remember. You're not "making" him do anything! Just decide for yourself how good your relationship is, and if you want to stay with him through thick & thin. If so, get married. If not, don't.
Only you know the answer to this question. At 25 I married a 38 year old and now see some problems in doing so, but I also saw the benefits too. You need to look at this as in any other situation. Your problem isn't about the age, but about your physical well being and chemistry and respect b/w the two of you. Some open communication needs to be happening.
If both of you truly love each other than you guys need to be together.
I'm 25 and I'm with someone 15yrs older than me. I met him when I was 18. We have a great relationship and a wonderful daughter. We've been together for 7 years. Just do whatever is in your heart. I hope this helps.
How much emphasis is he placing on sex? If it does not seem to be a priority to him, let him know your concern and discuss your fear. Maybe he'll agree with you about breaking up. Maybe you'll be the one feeling sexually neglected. Who knows, you two haven't formally looked into it yet :)
Buyer beware!! that is quite a age difference.. and a man that age sure can manipulate a woman your age.. especially if your a virgin ..for real what really do you have in common. just think about it ... can you see yourself changing his diaper in the nursing home in the future??
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