Should I tlk to someone about my state of mind?
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The answer to your question is a resounding "YES". You definitely need to talk to someone, preferrably a counselor, about the way you are feeling about yourself. You have a very negative self image, and need to talk to someone who can give you some ideas of things you can do to help improve the way you feel about yourself. Fortunately, it sounds like the things that are plaguing you can be changed with some effort :
1. If you think you're not very smart, study more, ore perhaps get into a study group with some of your nerdy friends. Often times your peers will be able to explain things you don't understand in a way you can better understand.
2. If you think you are fat, start exercising on a regular basis, and improve your eating habits.
The only one who can change you is you, but you have to take action.
If it makes you feel better. Even a psychologist is nothing more than someone listening. Find someone, (anyone) who just wants to listen. You text alot dont you?
You got stupid or you just gave up.
Some girls will do this to impress some guy.
Some guys just hate it when their girlfriend is smarter than they are.
You may need to talk to someone you can trust. If you can get your doctor to refer you to a therapist.
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You should talk to a school counsilor (Sorry can't spell that at the moment). But from what you said, you are not taking something very well. Maybe it's what your father's girl has said to you, which by the way she has no right to say anything about you to get back at your father, that is child abuse by the means of verbal. I suggust if you can avoid her if you can, and discuss this with your dad, even if you have to wait a few weeks to talk with the counsilor, and have your father meet with this counsilor and you and discuss the things that are said. If the counsilor is a good one she should be willing to discuss this issue of what his girlfriend is doing and explain the damage being done. As for you somehow being stupid... I don't believe that for a moment. Obvoiusly someone has said something, this girl friend of your fathers or maybe someone else, but there is something that was stated that gave you the impression that you are stupid, and somewhere you started to believe it. Words are like weapons, used in the right way can make someone believe they can fly and they jump to their death, but that is kind of hard to do but I am just making a point. But words can make a big influence in someone. You are only as smart as you believe you are. Don't give up because life seems tough right now, or because something someone said. You should start eating at least two meals a day if not three, it is not healthy to go that long without food, and even to eat something big after such a long time without food. If you feel like you have a good relationship with your mother, then tell her your issues and maybe she can help, and if not maybe a friend you trust. Friends can be a great support, but pick out those friends or friend that you trust, and they can help you or find someone to help you. By help, I mean information or just an ear to listen. Talking about issues even if you don't get a response. Sometimes a good friend is one that listens, and says nothing more. If nothing else talk to someone, and see if it helps. Good luck and take care.
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