Mom wants to commit suicide..help?
Question:
So she's been crying, saying no one treats her nice, and saying me and my dad doesnt care about her. Saying since she can't make money, and she's afraid my dad will yell at her for only spending money.
Shes mad at me because she thinks Im ashamed of her, just because sometimes I'm embarassed of her..which i think is common for a teen.
Now my dad says feel free to spend money to make you happy, my mom says he's just saying that..
I need advice, personally, I think my mom is crazy, but if I say that she'll just want to commit suicide even more.
Answers:
I'm sorry you're in a tough spot and i hope your dad is healthy enough to recognize the impact your Mom's behavior is having on you and that he can offer you some support and guidance. I'm suspecting this may not be the first time your Mom has expressed such thoughts when things have gone badly for her and perhaps your Dad can give you some insight here and step up his interventions with your Mom. All you can really do is let her know that you don't want her to hurt herself and that you need her and would miss her and ask her to get some help for her sake and for yours. Please let your dad know how this is bothering you!
If your dad seems uncertain what to do, look in the phone book for a crisis line number-they are available 24 hours a day and are anonymous. In many places they have authority to do a home visit if there is risk of imminent danger and can get your Mom treatment right away, but chances are they will ask to speak to her on the phone. If so, let them. It shows your Mom how much you care and how her behavior is affecting you.
Blessed Be.
Best of luck!
You should see a psychologist or psychiatrist as soon as possible to discuss this matter immediately. If you don't know one, you should get a referral from your primary care physician. You would go in as the patient and discuss this issue as an issue that is effecting you. If there is a threat of suicide that is mentioned by the patient, then the therapist has an ethical obligation to intervene. Good luck!
You need to make a couple of calls
because it seems your mom is in such a sad and upset condition that she can't really help herself right now.
She needs help. She needs it desperately, and she needs help right away.
Call your local hospital and ask to speak with an ER Nurse.
Tell her what you told us. Don't worry if you have to hold or if they transfer you a couple of times to get to the right person. If you get disconnected, or don't get an answer you understand, be sure to call back. Make sure you SAY "My Mom said, she wants to commit suicide"
Chances are they will want to evaluate her condition by interviewing her. Go with her, even if you step out when they actually ask her the questions. Otherwise, she may just walk out, if she's in the frame of mind you speak of.
If you see or hear any sign that she wants to commit suicide today -- CALL 911 immediately. They will come and they will get her to the help she needs. If she lies about it to them, step-up and speak the truth. This is your mom's life.
I was raised by a suicidal mom. Please put in a call to the MHMR dept. in your state.She needs HELP. Anyone that talks about suicide MUST be taken seriously. We had my mom committed to a psychiatric facility for 72 hours, she agreed to be treated at that time and it really made a difference. I was 14 at the time and now I am 48 and my Mom is still with me, she lives here with me, and is now, again depressed, but she had about 30 really great years before slipping back down the slippery slope. Talk to your Dad, he is a crucial part of this, my Dad left us and I had to deal as the oldest kid at home.
You and or her should check out this website http://postsecret.blogspot.com/...
It will help her connect and there is a link for the hopeline.
Try it, it's worth it.
The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline is a 24-hour, toll-free suicide prevention service available to anyone in suicidal crisis. If you need help, please dial:
1-800-273-TALK (8255)
You will be routed to the closest possible crisis center in your area. With over 120 crisis centers across the country, our mission is to provide immediate assistance to anyone seeking mental health services. Call for yourself, or someone you care about. Your call is free and confidential.
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