If a woman is Raped and has an Orgasm does she feel even worse about the incident?
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First off i am not sure this even happened to your friend. Rape is something that tramatizes people. Sincerly doubt she would be telling anyone let alone a male about it. I also find it unusual that you would repost the same question 4 times. Makes me feel like you might be some sort of sexual predator out here looking for something to get aroused from.
yes she feel terrible . i hate men who rape.
That seems totally bizarre to me. How could anyone experiencing such a traumatic and violent incident have an orgasm.
Unbelievable !
sorry but your question is weird. Also it is somehow unbelievable that this could happen and I have doubts that a friend would tell you she got raped and had an orgasm. This question is out of all reality. Rape is one of the worst things that could happen to a woman. If by any chance she gets an orgasm it is pure nervous reaction and nothing to enjoy whatsoever.
I think that rape is a life-crippling event in a woman's life regardless of the circumstances. I don't think there is any better or worse rape. They are all horrible, horrible, horrible.
Your question makes me uncomfortable. I hope it is sincere, but it seems creepy.
No, your question IS NOT WIERD. This happens to a small percentage of rape victims. It's not that the act is pleasurable for the woman in ANY WAY, it can be a simple physiological response to the trauma.
Her body did not react in a "good" way. Her body just reacted. That's all.
Please urge her to seek professional help.
yeah, i find that hard to believe, but if they talked about it on tv it must be true.
It's not bizzare, sometimes a woman does have an orgasm while being raped, or a child while being sexually abused. All it means is that the body is sexually functional. Responding to sexual stimulation can be an automatic response of the body and have nothing to do with what the person is feeling emotionally.
This is kind of an awkward analogy, but here goes anyways. Suppose you are on a hunger strike and somebody force feeds you. Just because your body digests and uses the food, and even feels better for getting it, doesn't mean you wanted to eat, and it doesn't mean you weren't overpowered and forced into something against your will.
Your friend needs to hear that having an orgasm DOESN'T mean she wanted to be raped. It doesn't mean she enjoyed it. It doesn't mean it "wasn't really" a rape. It takes nothing away from the fact that rape is a brutal act of violation. It doesn't mean she's less deserving of emotional support, or that she's "weird" or "crazy."
If someone doesn't realize that their body can respond automatically, they might think the orgasm means something bad about them, and it could make them feel worse. I hope your friend is getting the emotional support and chance to talk that she needs.
I write as a man and it is inconceivable for me that I could have an orgasm in such circumstances. Women must be neurologically very different.
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