Suicide?
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I felt that way for a couple of years and even tried it twice. I'm happy now I wasn't successful with it and that the ambulance came just in time, both times... but I was lucky & someone or something must have been watching over me. I've been there: It seems like theres no solution, that theres no purpose in your life, and that theres nothing for you in the future & it's only going to get worse... but if you don't stick around you'll never know. Life's surprising that way.
If your not getting help already, I suggest highly that you do. I know a lot of people think it's taboo and are afraid of getting help, but it's the only reason I'm here today & ok with things. Try finding a therapist in your area, or try having your doctor refer you to one. Good luck, and if you ever need some one to talk to, don't be afraid of sending me a message.
"Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem."
There are people who care about you. Please think of them. Talk to someone about how you're feeling. This could be a parent, pastor, teacher, counselor, etc.
Many feel that way, but thats not the way to go. There is help out there if u seek for it. Talk to someone, ur md, parents, friends, they can help. You do not have to go through this alone. OR u can always call 1800suicide
HOLD ON!
so i herd u want attention? :o
I don't know you, your age, or your issues, but listen up.
My dad blew himself away when I was 19. It's been ten years and I'm still not over it.
It's a selfish and cowardly way out, and if you do it, just know that your family and friends will find ways to blame themselves for the rest of their lives, wether you leave a note telling them not to or not.
If you woke up today in a bed, you're luckier than many.
If you've got any change to spare, you're luckier than many.
If you have any family at all, you're luckier than many.
If you're on a computer in a comfortable house with air and heat and food on the table, you're luckier than many.
Get my drift?
I know "it could be worse" is cliche, but it's true.
Im not going to be one of those peopel who tell you to not do it because you can talk to friends or parents or whatever,because they are most likely the problem.Try to get away.If you are old enough move away and start over.do what ever makes you happy.You know deep down that you dont want to die.Dont you want to see whats in the future??
Call the sudiside number whatever it is.
Just dont Kill yourself over something not worth your life.
Sometimes life is really hard, but if you hang in there, things will always get better. Think about what is making you so sad and your life so difficult, and make some changes. You need to talk to someone. Life is too precious to just give up on. Get some professional advice; there's no shame in it! Most of us have been in the position where we feel it would just be easier to give up, but you have to experience the bad in life in order to appreciate the good.
Think of all the things you would miss out on and the people you would hurt if you made this decision. If you don't want to get help for yourself, do it for them. I'm sure that you are the light of someone's life, even if you haven't met them yet. Just hang in there and be strong.
suicide is never an answer to a problem. seek help. suicide would be the worst thing that you will be doing.
Well not now but I have before. You should know that thinking about suicide is not really a normal thing. You maybe suffering from depression. You should call and make an appointment to see your doctor. Do not be embarrassed to tell him/her what you are feeling they may recommend therapy or an anti-depressant. I am on one and it is great I have a much better outlook on life, I no longer get upset and mad as much as I use to. It was a really good thing for me. Just remember that this problem will pass, they all do. Also if you drink it maybe due to that. Alcohol is a depressant and even though you may only drink one or two nights a week the effects can last for several days. I have found that exercise also helps with depression. It raises the endorphins in your body and makes you feel better.
Many people commit suicide because they are searching for a feeling of releif, but you can't feel that if you are dead. I have thought about suicide many times before, but thankfully I know that I wouldn't have the guts to do it. Just think, are there any MAJOR problems in your life? Will any problem in your life now affect you in 2 or 3 years time? Think outside of the time frame that you are in now. Are the things that are making you want to kill yourself going to affect you in a time outside of 'now'? If you die , you will never be able to come back. Ever. There is so much help out there, and there are always many people that will love you. Could you do it to them? Please, before you decide to go any further with your plans , find some help. Get involved with new clubs etc. and give yourself a reason to live. There are many websites out there that can and will help you, as well as people that you can talk to. Committing suicide could be the worst, and last, decision of your life. Don't do it. For not only your own sake, but for everyone that cares for you and loves you.
I am so glad that I never went through with my plans, because the problem that was effecting me is no longer in my life.
Check out this site:
http://www.metanoia.org/suicide/...
It helped me , and I hope it will help you too. Afterall, it is your decision :)
Hey there, I to have been down this road and beleave me there is light at the end of the tunnel, all you need to do is ask for help, may i suggest you go and see your doctor as soon as possable as depresion is one thing you cant fix with just a few happy days etc. I had to go on antidepressents as that was the only way to get me back to normality. After you have spoken to your doctor he may put you on an anti depresent or he or she may suggest councling or both, I have done both and still on antidepressents as my problem was classed as a post tramatic disorder and also a chemical in balance in the brain, which antidepresents is the only thing to help me.
The most emportant thing to remember is that you are not alone with this. if you cant talk to our own doctor talk to another one, but please seek help as this is something that doesnt go away on its own with out support and help.
Please seek help by you gp,councler,parent but someone that can help you through this.
Yea, actually the other day after my crazy 30 mile bike ride (PMS, feeling like my hubby doesn't care about me and not feeling like I was worth anything to my kids) I couldn't stop crying, I wanted a divorce hated living where I am living because of being tired of pretending that everything is so peachy. Tired of neighbors who where always consuming my time and pulling my family to do things with them and my hubby drinks so of course he wanted to go drink than to do something with me and the kids. Also I feel like I have no say in my marriage about anything. (that is a terrible feeling) I was feeling like I wasn't worth anything and they would be better off without me. I felt like I was going crazy.
Nothing really changed when I came home but before I came home, in my cryingdispair I went to my dads house and told him that I want a divorce. We talked and then we laughed and when I came home I kissed my kids and asked god to keep on holding me cause I am still feeling pretty lost.
You know leaving the situation for a moment and talking to someone I love really helped alot.
That was on Sat & Sun. On Tuesday when I asked the kids "Why don't you guys go out and play with your friends" they both said no. We just want to be here Mom.
Nothing worhtwhile comes easy and it is not easy. I am sorry to beat your ear off but I want you know if you feel like talking to me and venting you can email me. honestly if you want to email me and just yell & call me names it is ok.
You are not alone. Take Care.
I did a short time, then I realized situations ALWAYS change eventually.
Why not wait ?
dear kitty-cat31! Please don`t go there. Sometimes all seems dark and there is no hope to see, but that is gonna change! Just stay in there. There is a reason for most things you know, and by suffering we learn a great deal, if we are willing to. I have been there myself, and I know how bad if feels, how lonely and so on and on, but when the darkness seems to be all there is left, out of nowhere comes something along, something that will change your view on life in a blink of an eye. I had more or less given up about getting a woman to love ever again, hey, I am talking over 25 years without anything serious at all, and I need someone to love to feel alive and well, lol. I was near the point you are talking about and the thoughts happen to come from time to time. All of a sudden,a woman send me a mail, the rest is history ha ha ha, she moved from Florida, USA, over to Norway, and we have been together a year the 24 this month. Needless to say, all my former problems was gone like that. I have never been happier in my whole life. We are happy both of us. So I say again dear friend, wait, don`t go there, I am sure whatever it is, it can be fixed. There will come good days again, and when they do show up, you will be so happy that you stood it out. Good luck to you, stay in there girl, don`t give up! Peace and love from Norway
Do you feel this way often? My mom told me after the death of my husband not to think about tomorrow, but to think about next week, if I'm still feeling like there is nothing to live for that I might seek grief counseling. How about you? How about some sort of group counseling. Hearing what other people have done to combat their depression is sometimes more helpful than a one on one therapy. Suicide is definitely the way to get rid of any problems you have now or any future problems for that matter. But it's a sure fire way to never have good times, maybe help a friend with their problem, to never hear someone say, "I love you," to never tell someone that you care and love them. Suicide is such a selfish way to get rid of problems. I'm sorry for all your friends and family.
Honey, listen to me. You don't want to do something like that. What would that solve? Nothing. You would leave everyone who loves you in a state of hopeless confusion and heartbreak.
Please, talk to someone.
You can go to the ER tonight and someone will help you. They will help you to see what you have to live for!
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