I feel like I'm a sex addict & i cant control myself,What should i do?
Question:
I always feel dirty or regretful after i have a orgasm from these materials but a day or even hours later I'm right back to searching for that feeling i guess.
But i really do want to stop my behavior before it gets out of control & i lose my relationship with my girlfriend or Humiliate my self if it gets that far.
So can someone please help me.
Answers:
Maybe you should seek some sort of counseling for it before it ruins your life. I'm sure your girlfriend would not be comfortable with you looking at that stuff of that satisfying you. That is also disrespectful to your girlfriend and you really need to think what's more important to you. Porn? of Her?
have you tried involving your girlfriend with your 'habit'?
Your guilt is consuming you because it appears youre separating your girl and your sexual impulses.
Have you tried to merge the two?
What kind of girl wouldnt want to share her affections with the guys shes in Love with every day?
Involve her in your impulses.phone sex, if thats your thing.
Maybe use a camera for fun or a camera that you dont even have to keep a video in the camera to record.just streamline the video feed so you see yourself on the monitor if that's wat you enjoy. Maybe you could give eachother lapdances.
I think its healthy way to explore your sexuality with your lover, doing creative fun thigns together.
Now, if you are getting into all the freaky stuff out there, thats different. Thats when you say it might be time to see a counselor.
But I say try talking to your girl, involving her,and maybe you two can come to solution together.
Learn more about sex addiction here:
http://www.sexaa.org
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