There is something disturbing he wants to do...?
Question:
I don't feel comfortable about this at all. What should I do next??
Answers:
You say you've been dating since June but you haven't met him yet? Does that make sense? Is text messaging a date?
Does it make sense to discuss fisting and menstration with a cross-dressing guy you've never met? I hope you're not considering letting this guy in your home.
Hmmm get rid of him now! thats really creepy. eww really really creepy! did you even have to ask this?
You definitely have something to worry about. I'm sure you care about this guy... but please make sure he isn't serious about these fetishes. There's a fine line between being funny and being disturbing.
dont let him come to your house this guy sounds to me like he have a unstable mind and hes kinda sick so dont let him come to your house otherwise it will be dangerous for you to be true these type of sick people can do anything..just brake up with him..and next time never trust on anyone that easily..
STRANGE
Be afraid, be very afraid!
Find someone you do feel comfortable with
That situation is straight up Disgusting. You need to drop him fast girl... and if that is not an option, then you need to tell him how disturbing he is being. No man needs to wear your pads just because you are on the rag. He needs help.
some things are a little kinky and not that bad, but this is a sign of serious emotional problems, and maybe personality disorder, assuming he is really serious. be very wary here. there is a deeply disturbed person in there somewhere you may not want to meet.
That is freakin' weird and I'm now nauseated.
uhmmm honoslty if i was you i woujld get rid of him thats just gross and disgusting...
that's really really creepy. it's not exactly the usual fantasy. i'd slowly cut all contact with him.
Call the cops?
ER refer him to the nearest psychiatric centre, he's a fruit bat!
Break up.
Lose all ties you have with him.
Not to scare ya or anything, but he might be a stalker-ish kind of guy, just a heads up, but yeah lose the loser.
I think you need to just talk to him directly and that it makes you uncomfortable. if he takes no heed, say it a few more times. If he doesn't listen even after you've told him many times, you should consider leaving him.
That does send up red flags, be careful
That dude is not cool. I have heard of some kinky **** but this is just too odd. Tell him that you dont want him to visit you now. There is no telling what other weird *** **** he would want to do when he gets there.
are you sure;
one of his friends didnt get his password are something?..
but i think you should tell him this is a little weirdd...
like REALLY weird.
tell him how you feel.
and just see what happens.
Sit with your eyes closed
Imagine that you have x-ray vision
and can penetrate yourself
as if you were composed of translucent material
Look very closely
Imagine your body many years younger than you are now
Try to imagine yourself many years from now
Now: Imagine Your Beloved
Notice how his body is completely different from yours,
But the light illuminating it is of the same quality as yours.
Light is Light.
Do this exercise with the people you know and love
Do this exercise a number of times until you have the image clearly within.
Remember: We all are connected to the same source and therefore to one another.
I'm a nurse in a mental health facility and I can tell you now not to get any deeper with this man or let him know where you live. Cut off all communication. People like this can be very charismatic (that's how they draw mentally healthy people in), but underneath are very unstable, labile, and can be sexually agressive. Take care of yourself and be wary of those you meet on the net.
Well at first with the clothes I was thinking a bit eccentric - but the pad thing totally crosses a line... ewwww
Ya, I have to agree, just dump him. Tell him you aren't the one for him and you aren't comfortable - say sorry... but I can't do this - then move on. Find yourself a nice and normal guy... well more normal... how about that?
ewwwww excuse me I'm trying to eat dinner!!
Do you really need help with this situation or are you just trying to be shocking?
If you are silly enough to have someone like that know where you live then you are just asking for trouble.
Break up with the freak
fetish. its not your thing, move on. He will not change, but you sure as ...ll. dont need to change to satisfy him. to each his own (as long as children are NOT involved). im still wondering what pleasure comes from fisting or being fisted. omg, some things dont need to have answers i guess.. good-luck..
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