I can't commit.I'm always looking for something better.?
Question:
What is wrong with me and what can I do about it? Anyone have any ideas?
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Ok girl, PLEEEZE PLEEZE PLEEZE go buy the book "Ten Stupid Things Women do to Screw up their lives!" By Dr Laura.... I was (used to be EXACTLY LIKE YOU)... Honestly I wouldn't have ever admitted it or bought the book originally, but my sister in law gifted it to me as a B-day gift. I was totally hurt that she gave me such a book and I waited a year before even reading it, but I GARANTEE you (and this is coming from a chick who HATES to read anything more than a magazine or a clothing catalog) THIS BOOK WILL SOOOOOOOOOOO change your life! It's not even that expensive, but it's a Dr Laura NY Bestseller and is RAVED about all the time. You can even see her website (similar to a "Relationship" "Dear Abby type delio at DrLaura.com and here is a review on the book I just told you about.
Good Luck,
P.S> Don't fret girl, you will SO enjoy this book it is an EZ read and it's awesome! also, guess what - It prompted me to change my ways and my way of thinking about myself and men and this May 4th, I married the man of my dreams!
Keep in mind, that prior to this I was a mess! I was NEVER HAPPY!!!! Seriously,
If that doesn't help, I picked up a VERY quick read (bigf print) great inspirational pics - a short version of his book "Living your Best LIfe Now." Even Safeway has the book. Its small but like $10 and REALLY warm hearted - make ya feel good about life - kinda read - and I have gifted it to about 6 people in the last month (and seriously, I HATE READING!)
Best of luck girl,
Ciao'
Meg (Mrs. Paul Torrie ~ )
it soulds like a bi-polar disorder.you might want to seek out treatment.
There is nothing wrong with looking for something better, but not being happy is a whole other thing. You may also have no permanent goals, aspirations or values that exceed your abilities.
Your aggressive behavior needs to be curbed, though. When your frustration with yourself gets directed at others, that's a sign of lack of self discipline and reactionary behavior. You should consult a professional therapist for that.
This is you . Your experience in life has trained you to be this way. Try to relax and be nice. In a few years your body will be changing in ways you never read about in the health books. Don't commit to things that really never existed. Birth and death are real but marriage is just an agreement for social purposes like church acceptance or mortgage approval. Look to real things like birth and parents.
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