Help me please it does not get better with time!?
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Yes it does but it can take a very long time, When my mother left me and my brother and moved far away I cried for days on end, It took 8 years for me to finally get to a place where I can feel some peace on the subject But I still cry from time to time, and the pain will never leave totally but it is something that over the years or months you will learn to live with and one day you will wake up and see that there are wonderful women out there and you can move on. Try and trust some one again if you don't it won't get better you need to move on whether you feel like it or not.
It does get better with time. Usually.
What are you doing to help yourself? Are you trying to get into another relationship? Are you pushing women away, maybe even without realizing it, because of what happened with your wife?
Just getting out of the house will help. Going out with friends, or even for long walks by yourself. You might also ask a doctor if antidepressants might help you. I know a lot of people who are on them and they do seem to help.
I am sorry that you are having such a hard time with this. Sometimes it is the abusive ones that we fall the hardest for and I am not sure why. It is like they put a spell on us or something. Well for what it is worth, I am a good woman.
Divorce at best is very difficult. I have heard it compared to a death. You will get over this, don't be in such a hurry to find someone else. Spend some time on yourself, do things that you enjoy, perhaps new hobby, eat well, and get plenty of rest. And remember living well is truely the best revenge. I wish you luck.
Nope, that's the end of the road for get about them they are not worth it...
Everyone has their own time in healing. When you really Love someone and "puff" their gone, its hard to get use to being by yourself (alone). You are doing a GREAT job by trying your best to keep yourself occupied. Believe me, no one deserves to be put in a situation of any kind of abuse, any.You know you deserve better and that you wouldn't want to live like that for the rest of your life. Its a phase your going through and IT will get better within time, be patient..by the time you know it, you will find some other kind of happiness to fill that void (not necessarily being in a relationship)
ARE you a believer of CHRIST? Get to know HIM, and slowly you will feel and see the difference in your life (all aspects of your life) :O)
i am in the same boat.i had a crap experience with a woman in the past.i havent got over it yet.hopefully in time,things will improve.goodluck with your searching.
Yes there's good women out there.You have been in a difficult relationship by the sounds of it and it's made you doubt yourself and others.Things will get better,honestly!
Good Luck!
experience total pain and loss, & let it be as it is.
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