What did I just do.?


Question:
I just screwed things up. I've been talking to someone and I don't know how to open up and let her in so I gave her my poems. I don't let anyone ready my poems cuz they are all sad and depressing and now she has them and I think that I just screwed things up and I keept thinking that now she won't want to talk to me. What did I just do?

Answers:
Hey man... that took balls. I would think she will respect you for being so open and actually feel closer to you in the end. IF the poems are seriously depressing (like suicidal) just explain that you felt that way AT ONE TIME but not today. Everyone gets depressed... she should understand.

Best of luck my man!
just explain to her what your really feeling
talk to her

at least you'll know

breathe dude
You showed her the real side of you. Relax. If she doesn't "get it" someone else will eventually. Be proud of yourself.
You need to tell her how your feeling man, just open up and tell her!

Don't EVER let ANYTHING stand in the way of love, and i mean NOTHING
Dont worry unless she is a total which she will still talk to you. if she has any feeling towards you she will see your poems as you letting into your darker side and letting her know more about you. Its sweet ina way. n i write the same kinda poems n for some reason my bf likes to read them..dono y
chick dig poetry. next time write one for her. maybe you'll get some good feedback. All songs are pretty much poetry. musicians get chicks, worth a shot it's worked for me a few times. It adds to you Renaissance man effect dude.
the poems are not a problem in themselves, but you are clearly obsessing, and people who obsess tend to get rejected.

Get it clear in your head whether this person is attracted to you or not. I'm afraid you'll start stalking her if she rejects you.

If you've got that little problem under control, ...relax...they're just poems, and there are other fish in the sea anyway, if she's not down with them.

If you think the poems are a sign of a serious problem in you, address it with courage.

"Panche Be"
(Mayan, from the Popol Vuh, means to seek the root of the truth.)
give me a break.so you shared some inner thoughts,one of two things will happen,she'll either think your psycotic,our she'll dig 'em either way,why run from your true inner self.That is who your are and what you were feeling at the time of writing them
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