My uncle was murdered last year, my favorite aunt just died from cancer, and I was fired from my job?
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I am beginning to feel helpless :(
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First of all being fired from A JOB! 1. As long as you help yourself your gonna be ok. Start looking for the next job! It will help you to get busy! It will help you to meet other people. Even though you don't know them I'm sure someone might have something interresting to say to put a smile on your face. When you go home after a long day looking for work, your be able to relax,eat dinner, and go to bed. 2. Most importantly get out of the depression. 3. Sounds as if this guy who you really just wanted to have a conversation with ; really needs to get over himself! Hey I've met alot of people like this. There not worth the effort trying to be a friend to them. 4. You have all of us here! None of us know eachother but we are here to do our best in helping out! It sounds as if your mom just needs to see a Dr. She'll be fine. Your new job ; will be cooler then ever. Thats what makes life so magical and wonderful! Keep your head up! Put a smile on your face. Hold your shoulders back! Check it out! I grew up alone pretty much! I consider myself street smart! Hey at the age 7 trying to find food! Thats pretty bad. All the neighbors would try to take me in . My Dad died too! Thats when my life became extremly weird! Never had a Birthday party or a Christmas. Trust me! You will see! Life is very magical to those who think they have nothing! Cheer up! You have to learn to take hold of your life. There are many people out there they will help you! You have to reach out to them. Write to me anytime ok?
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not a good year for you, it can only get Better ---------- Good Luck
You need a therapist that is famliar with grief and loss, and also post traumatic stress disorder, you may even benefit from medication at this point.
Please don't delay, you have much to carry.
There are many techniques out there that can help deal with grief and loss, trauma and fear.
Email me if you want to talk more about this.
hope this helps,
Karen
Good grief you are in one heck of a rut, find a new job, make a new Friend, and try to stay in contact with people you love your mother should get the bruises checked out, and if you ever need just some one to listen you can always write to me, and I will try to be a good listener, if not me find a pen pal, it can make a world of difference to tell a stranger everything and not have to worry about them judging you.
you need to talk to someone like a therapist. they can help with copping skills. if you can move to where you family is so you can be around them.
hope everything gets better for you.
I just stepped down from a position at work so as to not make any waves because someone made a statement about me that was taken way out of context. It hurts and I want revenge but I can't live very long with revenge in my heart. I know I will get over it but it still sucks.
As for the other stuff you have going on, I think you need to let your self just feel awful and alone and it will heal it self. At least that has been my experience.
A doctor was beaten and tied up while his daughters and wife were killed in a robbery, an atlanta woman was found murdered, europe is flooding displacing thousands of people...beautiful. you can endure and overcome, because you are a human being, and you must be strong because the world may get too busy being strong for themselves.keep your head up...and keep shining.
tis better to have loved and lost than never have loved at all.
At least you can get a job. Even though I'm going to uni, I haven't been able to find a job in my year off.
All my aunts and uncles are really cruel to me lately so I never see them anyway.
I haven't really had any friends for the last 3 years.
But I'm so sorry for you, I could never know what you're going through. But be grateful because if something that great can make you feel that sad, then it shows how great life must be. I don't even have any emotions in me because I'm quite isolated lately. Hopefully that will change though.
But life is being tough on you right now. You just have to hang on and it'll get better. Talk to your friend, you clearly need him.
Aw Honey! Hang in there - send a prayer to God to help you get through this rough patch!
Regarding manager: If you were still working there, I'd challenge him to a lie-detector test. Loser loses his job. I did that once. A co-worker said a blatant lie about me and the manager called me into the office. I challenged her to a lie-detector test, and the manager declined it and said to not worry, just get back to work. I went ahead and resigned; it was due to my remarks to not join the union, and this was their way of forcing me out.
Regarding: Your good friend - outs. Don't wait on an apology from him. I would suggest you go to a card shop and find a friendship one. Write that you are sorry that this happened between you two, but you felt that he was being unfair. Then finish up by saying that you hope that you can be friends again, then leave it up to him from there. Mail it out; spend that stamp.
Regarding: Your mom. It sounds like she has a medical issue that is of a serious nature. You need to convince her to take a visit to a clinic to have it professionally accessed. It may be easily remedied; she may have a reaction to a med, or a food, or needing to be on some meds. Delaying on being pro-active about this may have bad consequences. Do your best to get this checked out!
Regarding: Depression. Depression is a chemical imbalance that can be brought about by stress or shock. Don't rush into getting on to some meds. If you can get a handle on your emotions, then the depression will lift. This is where God can be a great positive influence. He is love, and He is here for you! Just open up that door to let him in by offering up a prayer to Him - asking for His strength and courage during this tough time. He DOES listen, but He is not a fairy godmother. He does NOT grant wishes. He listens, He gives strength, He will pull you through. Pick up the Bible and ask Him to talk to you through it's pages. Don't get too caught up in this earthly world. What we are experiencing now is just temporary; just a vapor. What matters is our relationship with God and understanding who Jesus Christ is and what He has to do with us humans. Why He was sent here and for you to have a relationship with Him, too. And, don't forget the Holy Spirit - The Comforter that Jesus left for us to help us through these times like you are going through now.
Please don't feel helpless. Life can be overwhelming at times, and people can be cruel - that is why you fall back into the arms of God, and He will comfort you and get you through these times that seem so trying.
We will all be orphans at some point in time - that is life. Best to love your Mom while she is here, appreciate her, and understand that you will see her again in the next life. God does make that promise!
Honey, life is hard, but it has it's beauty, too. Don't forget to stop and smell the roses!
072407 4:45
I think pukiepie is onto something - get a pen pal! Hell, I'll be your pen pal!
Karma. You're very mean. I've seen some of your other answers. Sorry... Start being a nicer person and maybe this wouldn't happen to you.
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