Help! I'm alone...?
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A pet is a grate idea but only if you have a fenced in yard
and a good place for them to sleep. Don't just pay attention
to the pet when you are lonely. They get lonely to. Try being
your own best friend. I am never alone because I like myself
& I enjoy my own company. Be glad you are not a thousand
miles from home with no friends except back home.
Cheer up and remember your not really alone. We are all
here.
Talk to someone in your family whom you feel comfortable with.Get a small pet to accompany you when you are at home.It can be quite therapeutic.Good Luck!
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lock yourself in a room alone. then sit there for 2 hrs. then come out. you should be cured. or it could be horribly magnified. im not sure.
Well, u may want to consider getting a pet. a small lap dog or cat would be great company for u. it will take time & patience on ur part to overcome this fear, but persist & u will succeed. also, try playing some soothing music & relax, I know, easier said than done. Do u have a friend u can call? u need to redirect ur focus on things that will keep u calm. positive things.u dont give much detail as to what triggers this fear so i hope these help.
Dont be afraid of being alone, take time out of your week to go out and see new things. Go places youve never gone before like to a coffee shop or a jazz bar. To find people you have to get out and meet new people. Search but be subtle about it altho the conundrum to this is to find someone you have to stop looking and it will happen.
I admit being alone is no fun but unless you dont open yourself up to new opportunities then you will never meet new people.
You are not alone in this fear, 'no pun intended'. I was isolated from family and friends for over a year and almost lost it. This was by choice though and I did not realize how scary it would be. The only thing that I believe helped me was what I call 'my little life-preserver'. Her name is Mitzi and she is my Pomeranian. When I would walk her or take her anywhere people would always stop to talk to me. When I was alone at home she wanted to be right with me. I know not everyone can go out and get a puppy, but it is an idea...?
Tyler believe it or not u are not alone. There are a few things you can do i.e if u are in a group walk out room be aware of what is happenin, as soon as u feel worried walk back in, But i think it will be a lot better if u speak to a doctor who will offer councilin, there has to be a reason why you have this fear and it needs to be addressed quickly, good luck.
you fight depression and you get anxious. and maybe you try takikng something over the counter to sleep and a little beer or someting. and it doesnt work but an hour or two and it is worlse. you may be seeing a shrink alreay and it isnt working. or you saw some silly counselor who talks like a little robot. you need much more. i cannot tell you today. i am preparing my sermon. i will talk with you later. today watch charles on "in touch" on tv early thius morning. dont miss it. later this week send me a note if you care and i will tell you the rest of the story on this subject. you can manage for the moment. hang in. god bless. read about "in touch" charles stanley is a unique man. not just a preacher and teacher. he is a real person and he deals with your problem frequently. it helped me get started getting it together. make yourself check it out and keep in touch.
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