Time to check myself in to see a Psych?
Question:
Im really starting to do this for hours on end now. I am starting to act out these scenerios in my room by myself. Talking aloud to myself, bit like Taxi Driver - when he talks in the mirror but I act out these scenarios everyday for a good 1 hour or so.
Im not mad I can still function alright. Work is ok. But i hate my fantasy but it seems like my only outlet.
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Go book your bed!
Sounds like you need to find an outside hobby to do. Try finding something else to pass your time, anything to occupy your mind.
Do crazy people know they are crazy? Since you considered it I dont think you are.
Well we all live in a fantasy world sometimes. Unless you're thinking about violent things or hurting yourself I don't see any harm in it
If you're harming yourself, you need to see one. It might be a good idea to see one if you are unable to find another outlet.
I know the feeling, to me, it is the curse of bieng a writer. I find that writing it all out sometimes gives me a bit of peace and satisfaction, or at the very least lets me move on to the next dream. I dont think your crazy, just bored and needing an outlet.
Good luck finding one, seems your muse is impatient.
check yourself in asap
may I recomend grand theft auto before you go on a killing spree.
If you're a teenager, relax, it's normal.
If you're an adult, it's probably a good idea to talk with someone -- doesn't have to be a psychiatrist. Could be any kind of mental health counselor, including a priest or rabbi.
Wow, interesting dilemma. If you hate your fantasy, you could try taking up another hobby--maybe one where you'll be able to meet people--if you're comfortable doing that. Otherwise, a psych may help you figure out how to stop.
You're bored - just find something else to do. Go to Learn Direct and do a course. They do lots of literacy and numeracy courses around where I live. I wonder what they use all those computers for? I'm thinking of taking up photography. I can't decide whether to photograph listed buildings or naked women - what do you think?
you are spending too much time on your own. you need to get out, get a social life. if you have no friends, join a volunteer group, to help others less fortunate than yourself. you need to occupy your mind, i used to be depressed and had all sorts of fantasies. when i grew older they gradually became unimportant. good luck. if you REALLY are afraid you need help go and get it.
I think you should just force yourself to get out of your room a little more, you might meet people and then you would have no need to act out the fantasies. I know it's hard to just go out and try to meet people but it is actually a lot easier then it sounds and then you could save some money and not have to see a shrink.
Sounds like you aren't relating to the world around you too much.
Perhaps a counselor or someone to talk to would do you well.
There is nothing wrong with imagination. And if you are into gaming, this may be the world that you have grown comfortable with.but there is a limit.
Talking it out can help. See someone to talk too. Mention it and ask for assistance in understanding. Don't let yourself think you are crazy...but you do sound a bit lonely.
Explore your options.
Actually, I don't think what you are doing is all that strange. A lot of people get together in groups to act out role play, and become totally immersed in their roles. Just because you do this alone does not mean there is anything wrong with you, and infact these fantasies are probably a healthy release for you. You seem to be aware that is is purely fantasy, and as long as you can still see that line between fantasy and reality then there is no problem. You say you are a loner; why not get into role play as a way of passing time? (Sorry if this was unclear, I mean to suggest getting into roleplay as part of a group, but there is no harm in doing it alone either).
If it really worries you, try getting out more, I'll bet even if you are really shy you could get involved in a drama club (or roleplay club) and would get a lot out of it. You obviously have an amazing imagination, which is fantastic for that sort of stuff. Or just try to get out more and make new friends doing something totally different. Just don't kick yourself over this, like you said, you are not mad.
it sounds like you have a really creative outlet. Write down these situations that you are fantasizing. You could create a compliation of short stories, or if you can draw, or know a graphic artist, create a comic book. get into a drama class if you really enjoy acting it out. You may meet people who have the same creative outlet and actually find a new passion.
You could check yourself into some therapy, but also in the mean time write this stuff down. It will be good for your doctor to see what you are fantasizing about and who knows you could write a pretty twisted book someday!!
It's the lonliness and isolation. Your brain is an active organ and needs stimulation. You must get out of your room as there is a whole world out there waiting to stimulate your brain. Are you a loner because you are shy? Go for a jog, down the gym, shops, pub, etc.
So whynot write down your fantasy in fine details and send it to the movie industry and make money on it!..It sounds to me like your bored. You need to go out and find new things to fill your time with. You sound like you might have a imbalance of time but not crazy...think about what you would like to learn and start learning things...explore places you have never went to..life has lots of exciting things you can do alone...you must want companionship...you think of a girl...go out where a girl can really see you...get out of the house and walk around your town or go to somewhere and walk around, explore the beauty of the earth...think on things you want to happen...dont think on your fantasy...what you give your attention to grows...no audience no play...get it...it works...
Well whenever u feel that way just get something interesting to do..perhaps join a gym,go swimming,play some kind of sports to pass time or simple you could just go for long walk around parks or malls..try not to let you mind drift away into all these...if you still thinks its not working then have a word with a few people or psychotherapist and see what they could say...take care
You say you hate the fantasies. That seems like a good reason to talk to someone who can help. I don't think you need to "check yourself in," but I think setting up an appointment to see a therapist is a good idea.
You are completely sane. I believe all you need is to improve your self esteem. You can do it by practice. There are lots of tips you can find in Internet. some of them:
1- Like yourself and accept who you are.
2- Learn from your mistakes and do not blame yourself for them.
3- Improve your appearance the way you like it.
4- Sit and stand up right.
5-.
If you believe in yourself as who you are now, you won't need your day dreams.
Good Luck
You don't want your fantasy side taking over. It's good that you have the sense to get your head check before something real bad happens to you or the people around you. Get looked at before it's too late!
Yes, you need to talk to someone who is a psychologists or something. You are too much on your own. I mean, there are others out there in your situation, so meet on line and then, possibly, meet in real life. You are what Freud called "spooky."
you need to meet new people maybe a leasure course at night school
Try to engage more with other people. I think you have got too withdrawn.
Join a class or a group or anything. Do something that suits you, but take a risk and go and talk to people. I bet they will like you better than you think.
You've got a vivid imagination and I'm sure you've got a lot of love to offer a real girl.
Aim to make friends.
Best Wishes.
You sound like me, you've got depression my friend. I'm seeing a psych tomorrow. Not a psychiatrist or psychologist, but a psychic, just to see what's on the horizon for me, I cant wait around anymore.
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