What can you do if your not british and hate the uk?, i want to immegrate but feel trapped/stuck by my?
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You need to get out of the downward cycle you are in and start making things happen in a small way at first, but get the momentum shifting in your direction.
If the UK is so bad for you, then you better go elsewhere. If you have family somewhere else, why not visit them for a while and have yourself a change of scenery while you think more about your options.
I hope you are paying for your therapy with your own money and not sucking it out of our taxes
blame it on britain...i mean, its only british people paying for your therepy in a health system set up by british
go back to america and pay for it yourself
get a job and stop sponging on a country you hate
Hurry up and die then. The UK will be better of. At least you won't breed.
If you hate us why contact us,,,
The grass is always greener until you get there!The UK may not be Utopia but it is a lot better than a lot of places.You may hate it here and hate us but we are working and paying taxes for the likes of you to have a flat and food and health care.I will happily pay a one way ticket for you to some other country as it will be cheaper than supporting you with your ungrateful attitude!Thousands of people on here had to deal with traumatic happenings in their lives,they just get on with life and do'nt expect others to bail them out.You are a parasite!
Make a move yourself please you do not need commit suicide. stop that feelings at once and be yourself. You hate people around but you've got to love them. It is by the help of good people of British that you will relocate to your region of choice which is America and the good Americans are not at your reach. They must see this but will have to get the help of the people around you in Britain to locate your whereabouts friend. Love the people and you will find love from them. Long life dear. and successes in your wishes.
ro make some friends, get a job and save up to move out of our country, it sounds like out taxes are paying for your treatment. no wonder you have no friends with your attitude!
we have enough people in our country who want to be here, so the ones who don't, and the ones who don't like us are welcome to LEAVE
God forgive the first few people who wrote to you with such malice ... I promise you that we are not all like that.
Look, your problems are within yourself and changing where you live won't make a difference. Somebody once said 'Whereever you go, there you are ...' and that'll be true for you. Please, please get in touch with the Samaritans. They're there for you day and night; they're practical; they'll meet you face to face if you like. Don't just stay there getting more and more angry (depression is 'anger without enthusiasm' as a wise person once said). I hope you get some practical help soon.
I wanted to add some more - you've been on my mind ever since I wrote my first answer, which was under time pressure. I'd like to apologise for the people who wrote to you with rudeness and lack of charity and understanding. Thank God that not everyone wrote in those terms.
One of the reasons why people feel suicidal is what's called 'anomie' in the jargon - more clearly, it means being without roots, without goals, and without any sense of purpose. (The person who researched this began by noticing that the suicide rate *drops* in wartime - people have something purposeful to do). It seems to me that you have a bad case of anomie - that is, you'll probably not be near anyone else from your own community, and the depression - which feeds upon itself - then takes away any sense of goals or purpose that you might have had. You may not feel lie doing *anything* at the moment - though please talk to the Samaritans - but a thought crossed my mind: why don't you get in touch with one of your local schools and ask if they have a place for someone who will tell stories about your culture? You have a heritage to be proud of, and I'm sure that there are people out there who would like to listen. Why don't you give it a try? Then you'll find people who are interested in you, feel that you have something to give, and will thank you for sharing - and you won't be so lonely.
Take care of yourself, please.
Change your expectations.
what country would want another sad loaser in life?
I love the UK but then, I come from another country and can appreciate it.
Firstly, with an attitude like yours, wherever you go your depression and miserywill go with you. You will probably never be happy, until you get yourself sorted out.
Have you got a job? If you are serious about emigrating, you will need to make yourself desirable to a new country. Are you qualified in any area?
You can emigrate, you just have to have a kick up the bum to do so. The person who is holding you back, is you. Not the country, which actually offers hope to many people.
There is a strong chance your dislike of britain is based on your depressed state. I would try and clear your depression,with the help of doctors including alternative therapy doctors-then you will be able to live happily anywhere-good luck with it.
Firstly, I must say that you should feel more grateful for what you are getting here. Stay here and get better.
If you have never worked and you are 30, you may find it really difficult to survive in another country.
Maybe if you still have family in your native country, you could find out if they are willing to assist you if you come home.
Your a native american..I am not surprised your depressed. One of the most beautiful types of culture that ever existed-and now it is nearly completely destroyed. Your feeling the sadness of the past and the greyness of the future. But have faith.
Of course you hate Britain.most live souless lives here. Its a country that just exists to make money.
But there is beauty in the world. You come from a beautiful culture and let that live on. You can contribute in a small or large way...via anything...music...making things..I hate us English for comig in and killing you guys off. And I too hate Britain for that. I would love to know more Native Americans!
But you know what? You can find the good...there are people who are genuine..dont get involved with the wrong people-or places!!
Maybe your just in the wrong area of the UK? You didn't say where -if your in London -try moving. I moved recently out of London to Bristol and finally I can breathe! You can save and leave this country. Spain even. Trust that you will be ok. Trust the universe and ignore the bad stuff-move towards the good stuff-it exists! It is hard for you to work. Try something where your alone like cleaning...you just need to work for a couple of months to save to leave!
There are nice places in the UK and London though. If your in London-I found a beautiful place that was a sanctuary to me...a real thai temple with grounds in Wimbledon.www.buddhapadipa.
Life screwed me over too...I nearly gave up and now everythings wonderful. Take your time-invest your time in good things and they will come back to you long term.
If you go out with a happy and enthusiastic approach to life -it will rewards you tenfold...I promise. Even if you have to fake it at first!
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Have you posted this exact question before?
Any way, I'm sorry you feel like this and that you hate it in Britain. Perhaps its not Britain but the particular part you live that is the problem.
Moving for a fresh start is supposed to be helpful as long as you are not just seeing that moving will change everything that has happened in your life. You may just move and still be the same as you say you've never made any friends in life. Where did you life before you lived where you are for instance? If you were somewhere else and still were not a good mixer then perhaps moving is just taking the problem somewhere else.
I wish you luck and hope you find some support and friendship where ever you end up.
First off, I would seek some kind of counseling, that's probably the best option at the present time if you want to get your life turned around. You can let them know what you want in your life and they can help you sort through all this stuff that's in your head and figure out the best path to take to get your life on the track that you want. Just sitting there and taking what the depression is putting on you is not going to improve anything, nor is ending your life. It's up to YOU and not IT, take back that control...
Beyond that, if you want to leave the UK, then you need a plan that you can stick with. A way to save up the funds that you will need to get here and make it. If you were able to work someplace, then maybe it would help you be able to stash some of that money away for a while...and then maybe in a year or so of saving up make your move and get out of there.
Hope you are able to get the guidance you need and that things improve for you. : )
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