What should i do?

Question:

I just dont understand what's wrong with me?Just feel like staying alone and do nothing.I have a kid who is really sweet and i dont wanna be an example of loser for him.I sacrificied my career and I had big big dreams about it,but after marriage my mother-in-law destroyed all my dreams and my husband did not say anything to her when she used to torture me so much mentally,and 24/7 i used to think what was my mistake?But actually i was not so matured to understand that she is playing with me so that her son should hate me.I sacrified my career and now i dont have any degree nor any work exp!I feel so ashamed of myself for not making my career and when i look at my friends i feel so inferior that i get mad at myself.
My husband loves me but he never supported me when i needed his support,so i feel that i should run away and die and never come back,coz anyway i am aloser.No matter how much positive thoughts i have,nothing works in my way!I dont even feel like studying,no interest !

Answers:
Keep on dreaming. And keep on doing what you need to do to get that dream.

Asking questions is important. It shows that you are thinking.

Then add a new dimension to this.
Think about how you are thinking.

Do you feel better when you are thinking about something happy? Try it and see.

While you were thinking a happy thought did you remember that you felt depressed?

So what you say to yourself in your mind affects how you feel.
So use that leverage to feel better.

Its not about thinking positively. Its about thinking with a purpose.

If you want to be happy then think happy thoughts.

If you want to get to your dream. Then think about how you can get to your dream.

You only have this day to do something. You can only plan for tomorrow. You are powerless to change what has already happen.

So take one small step today toward your dream.

And read more at my website:
http://themeaningisyou.com

The very first thing I want to tell you is that you are NOT a loser, and stop thiking of yourself as one. I do not know your age, but there is always something you can do to feel better about yourself and engage in something that will help you feel confident and in charge.
Sounds to me like you're depressed and you've let others dictate your life for way too long. Time to stop that cycle. Do not keep thinking aboutthe past and the damage that other people caused. After all, you must bear some responsibility for it. What I mean is that you ALLOWED people to treat you like a doormat. Start with one small aspect that you'd like to change. Do you have a tough time saying "no"? That can be easily cured. If you feel inadequate or inferior to the people who appear successful and happy, remember a few things such as: (1) appearances can be very deceiving. Often the toughest, most successful person is just a good actress who may be shaking inside. (2) If they have achieved success so can you. Don't tell youself that it's too late to change. it'd be a lie and another excuse for doing nothing. There really is nothing and no-one stopping you but yourself. Plenty of truly successful people never received any kind of support. They just had to rely on themselves. But they possessed an inner drive, and you have that drive also. It's simply smothered by your blanket of depression and self-fulfilling prophecy. The website www.romancing-the-soap.com has proved quite useful at helping people feel better and more "empowered". You may want to check it out.
Best luck to you. You CAN be happy, successful, and you don't need outside forces to achieve that!

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