RECENTLY I HAVE BEEN GETTING DARK THOUGHTS that upset me. THINGS LIKE IMAGINING my parents dying..?
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Something is obviously bothering you at a deep level, and this needs bringing out into the open where you can face it. It's no use bottling it up - that's a recipe for disaster - so sit down and work out who you could talk to. You've made a start by telling us anonymous ppl in here. Maybe a counsellor could help. Other possibilities are Childline, NSPCC, teacher, doctor, vicar.. All these ppl have to obey strict rules of confidentiality and may not talk to anyone else about your fears without your consent.
Good luck honey, I will pray for peace for you. Please get help before this drags you down. if it would help you to email me, please do - nothing you say to me will go any further.
Do you believe in Jesus? As long as you have him in your heart you can command those thoughts are not yours. I have been in the same situation, when demons try to mess with your head, but all you have to say, is those are not my thoughts, and pray to Jesus. You will be fine, and It will go away.
My question to you would be - how are you feeling about yourself? Are you feeling down or unworthy in anyway? I feel some of your thoughts are to make you feel something. Obviously you don't want it to happen - but when you think them you FEEL something.
Try thinking positive thoughts to make yourself feel good and hopefully the bad thoughts will stop popping up.
Good luck and take care
Are you on any medication for depression? Sometimes this can be side affects from medications you are taking. If you are on any medication you need to talk to your DR about changing you to a different medication. Like you said you do not wish anyone dead these are your thoughts. They can become worse though if you do not get the help you need. I know you are probably a great person. My DR had me on Paxil, zoloft and prozac for a while and all of these medications caused me to have these types off dreams and thoughts.
You do need to talk to your DR about this as soon as you can.
You might just be stressed out about something so stop worrying and the thoughts will stop.
I have OCD and I have had the same problems. The fact that these thoughts bother you should show you that you dont really want them to happen. Its not like you are wishing for these things to take place. The best thing to do is to let the thought come in and then let it go...dont sit there and think about it and feel bad about it. Your mind is just scaring you because you know that these are some of the worst things that could happen in your life. It is very common...dont worry!
you need to be analysed by the psychiatrist and get your doctor to get you along now i have heard of this before and only specialist treatment will get you back on track
see a doctor
You should talk to your Doctor and therapist about your upsetting thoughts.
I have anxiety and depression and having been trying an alternative therapy called Emotional Freedom Technique and it has really worked for me and helped me a lot. Since using it I have been feeling a lot better. It's very good at getting rid of all kinds of negative emotions and dealing with all kinds of issues quickly. It does sound bizarre but does work. Might be something that can help you. These are some links about it.
Mabey you are depressed and you need to see a docter for anti-depression medicine.
Be true to yourself. We all have thoughts that are irrational. Don't worry. Lead a good and honest life. Try to help others when you can. You will be OK you know in your heart that you are a good person.
it sounds like you maybe suffering from depression hunny. i know as i am suffering with it right now. and i have all those random upsetting thoughts to. the best advice i can give you is to go and see your GP as soon as possible hunny. i went through a rough childhood and extremely bad relationships. luckily now i have a great partner that supports me. i am in therapy at the moment and it is helping me so very much. please talk to a doctor hunny. hope things work out and that you start to feel better real soon xxxxxx
Deedle is right. I call these thoughts daymares as opposed to nightmares. We all get them from time to time. Try to channel your mind into happier and more positive directions. Read more, listen to music, join clubs and societies, keep busy. I am sorry you feel unable to talk about this with anyone, that is too sad. Regarding friends, my mother, who was very wise always advised me to choose friends who would improve me rather than take me down, people with admirable qualities who I could respect. I'm sure you would be able to confide in people like this and they would keep your feelings confidential.I'm glad you were able to pose this question. You will get a lot of positive suggestions. If you get the other sort, just ignore them. I'm sending you a big hug down the line....I hope you got that. Bless!
Your bitter and resent full about something only you know..Your parents will die its not a morbid though more a fact of life...Death the great leveller is coming to us all..
You are suffering from anxiety which is a sympton of depression and i would suggest your talk to your GP and get some counselling. When you are on the slippery slope of wishing people dead- you remember 'be careful for what you wish for'- because it happens! And what bad thoughts you wish on others comes back to you to three times!
that sounds like ocd to me. I went through something similar to that, it could be that you are so afraid something bad Will happen to them that you obsess over it. there was a girl on mtv true life-I have ocd, she had the same thoughts you have. This does NOT mean that you are a bad or evil person at all. It went away for me, so hopefully that it will go away for you too. good luck, and feel better!! try not to worry too much, it will be okay.
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