Ex Narcissistic girlfriend, what should I do about her son whom I love so much?

Question:

I started a relationship with the woman of my dreams, or so I thought. Things were great for the first 6 months and then I started seeing problems. I thought she was bi-polar but the meds did not help. Her sister sent her info on Narcissism and she told me that is what she had. I asked if she would see a therapist and she wouldn't. We broke up 2 weeks ago and I am now getting emails of everything she is doing. What kills me the most is that she started dating someone else 2 days after we broke up, told her son I was pretty much garbage, and now I have an email exposing all of her lies to her mother and sister which could easily ruin their relationship with her too. I think it is her sending these, but I don't understand. I am ok with loosing her, but what her son is going through and dealing with kills me. Is there anything I should do??

Answers:
Keep in touch.

I feel for you. I’m sure you do love the child, but you need to realize that unfortunately that relationship may have ended as well. You guys were only together for 6 mos- if it were longer than that- then you may be able to continue the relationship with the child. How old is the child? Is there a way you can communicate with him? If he is older, try to let him know that you’re thinking of him, you love him, care about him very much, let him know that you’re available if he should need you for anything- give your phone number or email address and let the child initiate and continue the relationship. Even if the relationship does not continue as you like, certainly do send a card or letter for the holidays and his birthday so he knows you’re thinking about him. Good luck.

contact child sevices.

Reprot her!!Save the kid.

I would talk to her mom and sister and tell them your concerns. Or I would just keep in touch with her for the sake of the child. It's sad that ill people can't comprehend what's doing to there child. It will end up hurting him in the future. I was abused until I moved out at 21. Even though I don't talk to her, my sisters do and they tell me what she has said. Which is pretty much like talking to her without hearing her voice. I've been in therapy for year and 1/2, and it has helped greatly. My mom is sick and won't get help. It gets worse every year, and has really taken a toll on my sister's and I. However old the kid is you may want to suggest to her mom or sister that it may be a good idea to put him in therapy now. Good luck, and best wishes!!

Ex Narcissistic girlfriend, what should I do about her son whom I love so much?

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