I think my abuse stopped me from growing could this be possible ?, when i was 15 my grandfather abused?
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Hi there belovedboobs,
I'm almost sure that at 15 you're breasts were fully developed. All the siblings in my family have my father's long thighs but I only have inherited my mother's and her mother's short thighs and stopped growing at age 14. At sixteen my mother was 'sure' there was something wrong with my height, I'm 5'8" + inches. I wondered if it's because I went on a no carbs diet why I' m not as tall as my 2 brothers, but the truth is it's simply genetics. What can I say, God made me so, like he does everybody else. If you believe the Bible, that is; he, the Bible claims had a major part to play in my shape and formation.
There are tons of women with small breasts and some with virtually only nipples protruding some with inverted nipples, large areola, some with small, some with dark areola some with fair, some with large labia, some with small etc, etc, etc. Most small breasted women are particularly self-conscious especially in the US and the Western world. Other cultures especially primitive ones seem far less sensitive about this issue.
Try not to compare yourself with your sibling and not watch too much porn. Many of these girls have had breast augmentation and are chosen specifically for a certain body type and look. You are unique and very likeable I'm sure. Look at all the svelte models in cosmopolitan, vogue etc. It should be flattering that these models generally have small breasts and a premium is placed on this quality in this arena. So strut your stuff even if it's negligible or none at all, you're not disfigured in any way and I'm sure lovely.
Finally try not to obsess too much over this. If you still can't deal with them consider surgery, but weigh the 'costs' carefully and try not to develop a further addition to thinking your body is incomplete because it's not, even though I realize that a positive body image is very important especially for women. Hormone therapy will likely not help at your age, especially if you're over 19 years. You would have had to begin therapy at least by adolescence for your breasts to enlarge more than what is normal development for you. No gimmicks on the market have any significant long-term effect. Neither is pregnancy a permanent size increase. For some women the birth control pill does increase the size of the bust marginally but again is not a permanent solution and is not for every woman.
Love yourself. Embark on this journey of self discovery, I 'm sure it will be rewarding. I sure accept you.
Best of luck and regards,
In Christ's love and affection
Barry H
I can see you're pissed off and I can feel your pain even a little. Cheer up.
Did he touch your boobs hard? Did it hurt when he touched them? This could be a serious problem...
i really don't think their is a connection.
Hate to tell you this but most counselors feel that emotional development halts when a child is abused. But the abuse did not keep your breast from growing. The answer to what torments you is not larger breasts. Counseling may well be of benefit.
If this is effecting your life so bad could you not have implants. I am not saying that it will be the be all and end all in anyway as you clearly have issued around what happen and to be honest anyone that went through something like that would have problems. But would it not make you feel a little better to have what you most what in life. I am only a size b myself (UK b) so am not all that but it does not get to me at all, just something I have learned to live with.
take care
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