Well you've heard of Pedophiles, right...?
Question:
A gerontophile is a young person who is sexually/romantically attracted to old and aging people with gray hair, right? The polar opposite of a pedophile.
Well uh... I'm not particularly at all attracted to men over 50... and have wrinkles and dry skin, and gray hair and crackly voices.
I'm attracted to men in their thirties... I just like them better than any other type of man. O_o
And because I have a body of a 19-year old they're attracted to me too. Some unknowing of my real age... some not.
(no, I've never had sex or done anything sexually with anyone in my whole life; just get that disgusting picture out of your head now)
Does that make ME a gerontophile....?
Am I just completely screwed up?
Or is this perfectly normal?
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Answers:
a lot of teenagers go through this phase, its pretty normal, If not a phase if you don't have a father figure in a life this could happen, and you may be sick of the boys your age who act like little and kids and realise that older men are more mature, if so just remember one day boys your age will get a life too.
I don't think you're screwed up.
You may have a bit of a daddy-complex. (There's a term for it, I just don't know it.)
You will probably end up always being attracted to older, more mature men.
DO NOT get sexually involved with somebody older before you're of age. You can get THEM into a lot of trouble if anybody finds out!
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It seems natural enough to me. Maybe U just happen to be maturing faster than average,that's all.Maybe U ought to think about trying to graduate high school earlier if U could.
I was exactly the same way...I think u should wait until you are of age before any romance...but I agree that men in their 30's are better. Make sure they're not married though.
My alarm is going off... I think you are very well spoken and well presented for a sixteen year old.
Whatever! What's the big deal? When I was 15 years old, I lusted for 30 year old women all the time! To hell with those young girls, give me WOMAN.
When I was 17, I was in love with a 32-year-old woman. It was awsome!
Whatever you do, don't encourge them and lie about your age because, though it's not that wrong, they could get into serious trouble. Maybe in another country you'd be fine but not here.
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