Should I be careful?
Question:
I'm torn. I have been dating this man for about two months now.Lately he has been telling me that he wants me to go to Arizona in November to meet his family,friends,everyone.H... and I live here in California and he wants to move to New York with him next year.He asked me last weekend if I can have children.I'm a little hesitant because he has a really BADDD temper.He got mad at me and punched the wall.We went on an outing to the park. I told him that I needed to go to the bathroom.When I got back from the bathroom he showed me his camera.He had followed me and took pictures of me as I went to the bathroom aal the way until I went inside.I remember stopping to talk to a lady about her dog,he took pictures of that too.Am I jumping to conclusions or should I be carefull?
Answers:
Usually meeting the family is an indicator of intimacy as is moving away with him and moving in with him. He probably is leading up to asking the big question. Those two instances are a bit unusual, but if he only does this sporatically and occasionally then you should be fine. If you have a problem, it is always best to confront it. Try to work it out between you and him personally. If he truly cares, he'll try to work through it and get over that obstacle. If all else fails and you want to try somthing new and effective, try to convince him to visit a psychologist with you. It can be a little expensive, but if all else fails, it should help.
Your guy is weird..
These are some definate red flags. The bad temper, the stalking you to the bathroom, wanting you to move away from your famiy to be a lone with him, all after dating 2 mos. This is not a healthy relationship and will only get worst. Get out now, and watch your self.
No, you shouldn't be careful. You should politely tell him that you need a little space and if his reaction is negative you should get some professional help about how to handle this loose cannon.
this guy is desperate and violent - run don't walk from him.
judging from your picture and tag line - it looks like you may be setting yourself up for a problem - you have completely objectified yourself.
One suggestion ...FORGET ABOUT HIM !
You live in California ,he wants you to move all the way to NY where you will have no one to turn to for help ,since they will all be MILES away.
You say he has a BADDD temper and to me he also sounds like a control freak watching your everyone move .
Take my advice and get away from him now . Get help.Report him if needed .
i think that you should be careful with this one too...
the temper is a factor that i would be warring about a little... what happens when he hits you and not the wall! if he hits the wall then he will hit you given time...
the photos wow that is stalking and sounds a little like obsession to me and that is something that can be very dangerous for you to have in him... i would be getting out now while you still can
Not only should you be careful, run in the opposite direction.
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