How do you keep from feeling lonely when you really are all alone?
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I feared being alone
until I learned to like
myself.
Trouble arrives in measures,
and we stack it up real high,
until we're convinced,
we have no reason to try.
If you feel defeated,
you're absolutely wrong,
for if you follow your dream,
you could never lose for long.
I feared people's opinions
until I learned that
people would have opinions
about me anyway
I feared being alone
until I learned to like
myself.
I feared failure
until I realized that I only
fail when I don't try.
I feared success
until I realized
that I had to try
in order to be happy
with myself.
I feared people's opinions
until I learned that
people would have opinions
about me anyway.
I feared rejection
until I learned to
have faith in myself.
I feared pain
until I learned that
it's necessary
for growth.
I feared the truth
until I saw the
ugliness in lies.
I feared life
until I experienced
its beauty.
I feared death
until I realized that it's
not an end, but a beginning.
I feared my destiny,
until I realized that
I had the power to change
my life.
I feared hate
until I saw that it
was nothing more than
ignorance.
I feared love
until it touched my heart,
making the darkness fade
into endless sunny days.
I feared ridicule
until I learned how
to laugh at myself.
I feared growing old
until I realized that
I gained wisdom every day.
I feared the future
until I realized that
life just kept getting
better.
I feared the past
until I realized that
it could no longer hurt me.
I feared the dark
until I saw the beauty
of the starlight.
I feared the light
until I learned that the
truth would give me
strength.
I feared change,
until I saw that
even the most beautiful butterfly
had to undergo a metamorphosis
before it could fly.
Trouble arrives in measures,
and we stack it up real high,
until we're convinced,
we have no reason to try.
If you feel defeated,
you're absolutely wrong,
for if you follow your dream,
you could never lose for long.
Ignore the minor set-backs
that pile up and trouble you,
or you will build a mountain,
out of the stones hurled at you.
The future holds great promise,
your destiny unknown,
but God is always helping,
and you're never alone.
Soar bravely toward your goal.
Let nothing darken the way.
You can change your tomorrow,
if you seek your dream today.
As long as there's a breath
left in your body,
there's hope.
As long as mankind
has prowled the earth,
miracles have happened,
restoring life and health.
As long as you have
a loving heart,
God will send much
warmth and love
to you in return.
As long as you've been alive,
God has been watching over you
and answering your prayers.
As long as the heaven
and stars exist,
God will be there
for you.
You may get a lot of negative
feedback from others,
and so much happens in life
to block the road you wish to travel.
But you must dream anyway
and cherish your dreams
as they come from your soul
and are the blueprint
of who you are.
What's more, they represent
the direction you should take on earth.
Let your heart set your goals
and remain dedicated to them.
you could act then regret it later, or regret later of not doing anything at all.
Either way, you could end up with lots of that.
personally, i'll just step forward and see how thing goes rather than spending time brooding
and keep wondering years later...what if...It is better to have tried(loved) and lost, than not have tried at alll...
You can be all alone, without feeling lonely, coz when you start feeling one with all Life, then you will realise that you are never truly alone.
Let me narrate a story here, it is a real life incident.There was a person called Colonel Gerald Coffee, He was called Jerry by his friends, it so happened that he beame a prisoner of war and was held prisoner for 7 years by enemy forces.During the 7 years, the enemies put him in a special prison, with no other human contact.Imagine, none to see/talk with ? What would an ordinary person have become ? He would have gone mad...really.
Our Gerald coffee was made of more spiritual stuff, He perceived this event in a different way,..He thought that this was an opportunity given to him byHIM(GOD) so that gerald can become close to HIM.So, Gerald started talkingwith GOD, as one qould talk to onne's friend, and so did not feel lonely at all.
He did not feel the boredom.
Everyone is a bore to someone else. that is inevitable and immaterial.The point is to e comfortable with being oneself and not become a boredom for our own self. You can try talking with yourself...I do it, I accept myself and talk with myself.Have a Try, it will seem unusual at first, but there is nothing like it, like talking and having a good dialogue(yes, holding onto both ends of the conversation) when you are all by yourself.
get a pet. or mabe have a freind over or mabe listen to music and pretend your at a concert at the same time. that works for me:)
I answer your questions cause your someone special in my life.
I don't have any special person in my life besides my children and as much as I love them I don't want them as my partner. I have been with out one for a while because I won't settle for just anyone. When I'm feeling alone I tell myself that some day I will meet that special some one and than she and I will be together and until that time I read, hang with my female friends and deal with some of the other issues I have to so that when I do meet her I will be ready to have her in my life and I will also know that I"m ready to settle down.
if you dont have someone special in your life, maybe your the one who is special in someones life...always think that your not the only person in the world carries the toughest problems, or think that your lucky coz not everybody is as lucky as you.:)
Having someone in your life is important to all but keep your chin up and round the corner maybe there will b someone!! we all hate being alone yet just carry on and get on I believe that there is someone special for everyone so you just keep looking and your luck will change. Good luck stay safe xx
music, my friend, music. it has saved me many a time.
try going and do as much activity s as possible u will meet new people and friends and u could also get a pet like a dog or a cat
Try doing some volunteer work to keep yourself busy. You will be helping others and meeting people and making friends at the same time.
Even if you are sitting alone in the dark, there is no reason that you can't help someone less fortunate, to help bring light to their lives. ☼
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