My ex is suicidal... or is he fake?

so my ex told me he has a suicidal bygone. He told me this while we were together. I begin to think it wasn't the most tough thing for me, and he needed someone who buried him more, because he still had suicidal thoughts. Then when I begin to tell him that we're better as friends, he started person all freaky and hinting that if i broke up beside him, he would start cutting or he would butcher himself... it kind of freaked me out. So I stayed near him for another month but I was fed-up. I just didn't want him hurting himself. Finally after I talk to my parents about it I broke up next to him. He never killed himself, but very soon he is telling my complete high institution that I'm a liar and a player and adjectives this junk. I am so sick of it I don't even own the will to confront him because I don't want to talk to him at adjectives. What should I do? should I help him beside his insecurity or should I continue to stay away from him?

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Answers:    There is no course to tell for sure if he is fake or not, but it is definitely not your responsibility anything decision he ends up choosing. The reality that he has attempted surrounded by the past demonstrates that if he does hold suicidal thoughts, it is not all your doing.

You did the right point by informing his parents of his current behavior, and perhaps it's time you passed on the responsibility to them. If he have attempted in former times, then it seem to me that they should be familiar with suicidal behavior, risk factor, and signs to watch for. However, if you grain up to it, you can try to talk to them give or take a few it. Risk factors include: recent adjustment in behavior, previous suicide attempts (check), planning (has thought more or less exactly what he would do and/or has the indispensable means), depression, mental disorders, use of drugs or alcohol, preparatory behavior (said goodbye to loved ones, given away treasured items, etc.) The more of these risk factors he have, the more likely he may in truth complete suicide. You can encourage him (or through his parents) to bid a suicide hotline (national #: 18OO-SUICIDE) or get counseling. If ever you are sure he is going to attempt suicide, you can call for 911 and they will send relieve to intervene.

His behavior right now is poor and harmful to both himself and those around him, so you probably don't want to be associating next to him at all. Telling his parents adjectives of these things and if you want, his friends, is more than enough. There's nought more you can nor are expected to do, so stay away and let yourself alleviate. Whatever he may do in the adjectives is up to him and will be HIS choice alone. Remember that you are in no agency responsible. Do not let him guilt trip you. Good luck.

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Offer to serve him think of a early painless way to commit suicide. Bet he back off the subject after!

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