Can Love be with someone so wrong its like a disease?

Question:

Not disease like a physical ailment but one that eats you alive inside because you will never be able to touch that person in the way you want, never even be able to tell them that you couldn't function without at least the smallest amount of interaction. to have to play it cool when your dying a fast heartattack death inside. Giving up oppurtunities to have a happy more productive life just to remain in contact reach. I feel sick inside and scared and like everything is crumbling and I can't catch it and it happens every time I see him. Am I sick? this feels like a searing addiction. I try to be brave.

Answers:
Tell him how you feel. You have nothing to lose be it that you're already hurting. I too have experienced painful love before.

You can also try spending time with someone else. You have to let go.

Many people think that holding on is what makes you stronger. In reality it's letting go. Letting go does not mean giving up but accepting that there are things that can not be.

good luck!

Sick? No.

Infatuated? Probably.

No worries. It will pass.

Oh sweetie, you've got it bad. I've been there. The only thing I can tell you is to hang in there because it can get worse. You need to tell him how you feel before your heart implodes. Trust me. The sooner you tell him, the sooner we can get you better. Good Luck.

Yes, it can be like a disease... the sweetest most painful disease you'd never want to exchange with anything else.

:-)

Why can't you ever tell the person? If you feel you can't tell him/her directly, write it down in a letter and hand it to him.

Trust me, it is worth to be turned down by someone, than never ever showing him your love.

Can Love be with someone so wrong its like a disease?

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