I am tired of struggling.?
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Looking for work is a full time job in itself. After spending 8 hours a day looking for work you must take a break. Rest on weekends too, as you need to be in good spirits for your interviews. A good attitude and positive personality are critical.
Let everyone know you are looking for work. Networking and social relationships are key. This is where your volunteering experience can pay off. Consider temporary agencies for the short term while you continue seeking out a better job.
Don't set your standards unrealisticly high. Get a solid entry level position then work your way up.
Get a shrink dude!
I hear ya...if ya need a friend email me
Oh dear. God has NEVER left your side. Pray for god to lead you where he wants you to go, and you'll be amazed by the amount of doors that open. (Or it will be one prominent one.) Don't give up!!
a simple prayer may help you before you do your job.
Maybe you can volunteer somewhere in the meantime so that you don't have so much time to think about your problems. Sometimes, seeing what other people go through can help you to put your problems into a better perspective.
I hope you find a great job soon and I'm sure the rest will fall into place as well. I can promise you that the problems that you have at 22 will pass and you'll be stronger person for going through it.
Best of luck to you!
I attended job fairs when I was first out of college and started in a field that had nothing to do with what my degree was in.
Also, I have gotten alot of insight and my current job by monster.com and by using a recruiter. They do all the legwork and tell you about the job. They set up the interviews and you choose if it's something that will work for you. You will know the salary range before getting into the job.
I'm really sorry to hear of the things you are lacking but in time you'll find a job and a spouse. Stress is hard to handle, but it doesn't last forever. Keep searching for a job and maybe try working at a min. wage place while looking for a real job so you can get some sort of income. Good luck with everything and feel better dear! God hasn't forgotten you.. Don't give up!
-Kari
ok, first of all relax, and by all meens, do not show that attitude in a job interview. your only 22 so dont give up quite yet. your degree will work for you, but you need to remember, theres alot of competition out there, so its all about how you write up your resume and how you act in a interview. you will be fine. be patient, you have to work a little for the good jobs. good luck to you
volunteer. it's a way to get out of yourself AND network which could lead to a job. this too shall pass, darling, our lives go in cycles. we need the tough times to give more flavor to the good..
I'm 41 and in a similar boat. I have a job (hate it, bored out of my mind) but I have very little in the way of support. Getting up every morning is next to impossible. I don't know what to do either but know that you are not alone. I'd be happy to talk if you wanted to e-mail me.
it is not worth it to give up because if u do u will never find what u seek. talk to family,friends,neighbors,old teachers, whoever else u can think of. sometimes in the job market it is more who u know than what u know. just keep trying. if u believe in yourself others will believe in you to.
Invest about $2 and rent "Pursuit of Happyness," or whatever that film is. (It's the one that has Happiness misspelled in the title.)
Also, you may have to act as though you do NOT have college training, and take a position which seems beneath you. Waitering/Waitressing can pay a lot, if you find the right place. If you do that, try to become the most professional waiter there is. Be the best, and keep working to do it better. Good money may come toward you in unexpected ways.
Best Wishes.
dont give up I was the same way for a while but I found a job, not thrilled with it but it pays good. I still dont have any spouse or support those will come in time. I look at what I have acheived on my own, its a good feeling to know I could do it without help. You will enjoy it more, doing it on your own, someday when everthing does come together for you
Jesus is my friend when I am lonely or not. Jobless, stressed? I just went trough both of those things and I know if it wasn't prayers of church and daily talks to God, I'd never make it. Ones in a while God shakes our boats to show us that we need Him. That's it.
You have a life right? Your breathing, your heart is working and you are alive right? if so then god did not forget about you. There are people with a harder life. About your probs now.Lets see your single. Here is a souloution. Well look for a spouse. Have some friends help you. And for your job well, you didnt mention hat kind of job like mcdonalds or anything. If your looking for anyjob just look in the yellw pages or the news paper and find a job. Life isnt easy and no one can live without struggling. Thats just life. Even rich wealthy healthy people struggle with there every day lives. Just stay strong and believe in your self.
Dont give up on God.
Sometime we may go through some misery,
to turn to Christ more.
That makes two of us.....and probably many more. I struggle with my desire to give up on a daily basis. Try and pray, take a walk, take up odd jobs just to keep yourself busy, If you like dogs, try walking dogs,. If you like children, try being a child minder for a few hours every day.
It is said that "you beecome what you believe". So keep believing.
Wish you all the very best
God bless
If you want a job you'll get it. Keep you mind focused on getting one. Try mailing your resume, call to follow up.
Last year when I got out of school it took me 2 months.
I stopped worrying about finding a bf and out of no where comes my soulmate.
Don't give up!!
I know exactly how you feel, life is very hard and some peoples lives are harder than others. But dont give up you will find a job. Things will get better for you in due time. Just trust in God. Sometimes in life you have to stuggle to get to the other side. But don't give up with out struggle there is no progress. Just keep your head up and try to make the best of the situation. Try asking family and friends to help you. I hope this help. I know its hard right now but you have to keep going. God has not forgetten about you He has every thing in control and He is working on your behalf right now as I type this. Sometimes there is spiritual warfare going on things that we dont uderstand but remember God is fighting your battle and He will work everything out for you. You will make it.
Read this book its called a Piece of Cake by Cupcake Brown her story will touch your life its a true story she had a real hard life but now she is a attorney for a big law firm, she has a powerful testimony. If she can overcome than I know you can. She was a prostitue, in a gang, did every kind of drug there is, she found her mother dead, lost her family she was like the story of Job in the bible she didnt give up and now look at her life she is very successful. visit her website at www.cupcakebrown.com
when you feel that GOD has given up on you it's really that you have given up on GOD. maybe you need to turn to GOD in honest and open prayer. not asking for anything but thanking GOD for all that HE has done for you. take a long ,hard look at your life. sounds to me like you are feeling sorry for yourself and that may be coming through when you go on job interviews. as someone who used to do job interviews i can tell you this your attitude about yourself and life in general does come through and does have an effect on the outcome on whether you get the job or not. so you might try working on your attitude somewhat.i don't know hwat you got a degree in but you might want to take a job to somewhat support yourself wqith and job hunt for a job in your field on your days off. at least your bills will get paid and mabe it will help you feel better about yourself. you are too young to be this soured by life. i know it's hard to motivate yourself but you are the only one who can. you are not a chgild any longer at 22 you are an adult and you have to stand up and take charge of your life. i promise you though turn to GOD HE has not forgotten you. HE is there for you anytime you are ready to turn back towaorods him. this is the time to do that. talk to GOD as you go through the day just as you would any other friend. the conversation can stay inside your head. all GOD is asking is for a chance for you to acknowlledge HIM and love HIM and JESUS.
We all get these feelings sometimes. Sometimes you really need to take a good look at your life and why it is the way it is. For instance, your tired of struggling but you have a degree. Think about whether you sitting at home is going to help your situation and start telling yourself that if you wait for others to guide you, you might wait forever and struggle even more and fall even further down. I could say things like say a prayer and your troubles would be over. But who are we kidding. I have nothing against religion. I used to be a very good catholic but after falling into depression, I have lost interest in everything and have lost my faith in religion itself and lets go even further, if you do not believe in anything and yourself, how can you eve think saying a prayer would work. Without the will and faith in yourself (you), you cannot do anything. So start realizing that sitting home waiting for someone to do things for you is not going to be the answer. You got ur degree which is a reflection of your own accomplishments and certainly if you can pick yourself up and look for a job you can find one.
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