Can you help me? I need help. I was raped?
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I know that this is hard because it happen to me, but the way that you'll be helped the most is to talk it over with someone who's been through it also. Find a rape counselor or a rape survivors group. There are times when speaking of the things that hurt us the most really does help but you have to find the right people to talk to. If your parents don't know than the first thing is to tell them or have someone that you trust tell them. Please trust me find a rape survivors group and join it won't be easy at first but it will get easier as you hear the other stories and realize that you can learn to live with it. It will always be there and it will always hurt on some level but you can learn to live with it and have a good life if you face the issue and deal with it.
i'm so sorry what happened to you. i'm 14 and i haven't gome through what you have, but joining clubs, activities, or group things could help create friends and keep you focused on something else. if you ever need to talk to someone, email me at h2base@gmail.com
Oh sweetie !
I'm so sorry !
This is a serious matter,
Make new friends join extra curricular activities !
And if you want help just see a therapist or if you need to talk it with someone im here anytime just email me =]
Don't worry and don't suffer hun it'll all go away I promise.
Oh Gabriella, I'm so sorry. You say that you were trying to get into church, that makes me feel you believe in god. My advice would be to pray hard for his help.
Have you told your parents or a family member how you feel?
This is a terrible thing to go thru, I wish I could help you but it seems that you have done all the things you can.
I know it's hard but try to forget what happened, try to think I am not going to let that person ruin my life.
If you want a friend to talk to please send me a message.
Fight it, my friend.
Don't let your mind collapse. When you go through trauma, you need to support your inner self. Please don't sink into this feeling of helplessness. Fight it. Don't let that bastard get away with it and do it to some other helpless girl like you. He might be planning to do it to some other innocent girl like you.
Here is what I would suggest.
Queitly write to the Police, and reveal his identity.
Write to the local newspaper and tell the whole who that person is. You don't have to reveal you identity if you don't wish to. Write to the Governor. Write to important Law Enforcement Officers.
ABOVE ALL...
Write to WOMEN'S RIGHTS ORGANISATIONS in your area.
Please do it for yourself, and for other girls like you. I am a man. But I really, really feel for you. Please feel strong!
I hope my letter will convince you to get up and act, my child!
The first step would be to talk it with your parents, if you haven't. Second and most important, GO TO THE POLICE. I won't say that i know how you fell but i know that it could be scary. But trust me, once you report it to the police you'll feel relieved as you know that the police will do their best to catch him. Yes, it takes loads of courage but think of what could happen if you reported.
1. If they catch him, JUSTICE IS SERVED.
2. No other girls will be a victim to him
3. Once all this is done, your life can get back on track
Hang out with your friends, do the things that make you happy-things that you love, new hobbies or unhidden talent, maybe....who knows....don put life down, talk to someone who understands you, a counsellor may not have helped as he/she doesn't know what you're like... you're still young, live it to YOUR fullest!
Make sure you are getting all the help you need until you are feeling better! Keep reaching out, have you contacted anyone from your local church? They may be able to help you feel better.
My prayers are with you!
oh honey, I feel so bad for you! i know you're going through such a horrible time right now, but you have to get some counseling. try finding a rape crisis counseling center in you town. tell your parents to help you find one. you have to have some help, that way you can heal and go on with your life. it'll take some time, but you'll get better. Just remember that rape is an act of violence and what happened to you was not your fault. I hope you find the help you need and good luck to you. talk with your parents too, because you need their support more than ever. God Bless.
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