My family hates me!?
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Don't worry. I'm sure no one hates you, but I know being ignored can make it feel like that. If you're worried though go visit your grandma and ask her if you've irritated her, try to make things right if you have. Call other friends and arrange a get together, go see a movie or something with them. You can always join a club or get a job and make more friends. I hope you feel liked again soon :)
get some friends piss off and let them come running too u they just care about you less cuz you getting older .
personally go see her wait to c her if u have 2 talk to her ask why if is not talking 2 u and would a real friend hang up on u think about it i'm sure your family does not hate u
awwww thats sad well you can go on line and talk to yur parents why they arent talking to you and arent helping you maybe there depressed about something or there stressed. call your friend and talk to her about why she aint talking to you.
sound like you have teh teenage blues. Youneed to get out of the house even alone you never know you might just have fun. If these feelings dont get better you need to seek out some help. being a teen is hard on your emotions
!CALM DOWN! I'm sure you family doesn't hate you. take a long walk to clear you head. talk to your best friend about how you feel but don't just call as the victim OK, listen to what they have to say. write about your problems. Don't get to hysterical over things. . . . . .you will confuse yourself.
- - - - personal experience when a friend of mums came over i didn't feel comfortable with her around so i made my self think i couldn't eat with her there so i didn't eat for 3 days and i stayed in my room all day and just cried telling myself how unfair it was for her to be there.
That reminds me of when I was younger and on summer vacation with nothing to do.It can definitely be a bummer when it seems like no one wants to hang out with you, but chances are your family and friends do NOT hate you! That's one of the good things about family: no matter what they always love you. Maybe your grandmother has something she is dealing with right now. Maybe something is wrong with her phone. Have you tried going over to her house? Regardless of what you Grandmother is doing, it is important for you to calm down and think more positively! I'm sure you are a great person and it just seems like no one wants to hang out with you. I've been in that situation before where one person can't and you get a little down, then another person can't and you feel even more down. It makes me think of a saying: "when it rains, it pours" which means that when you start feeling down or upset, everything starts to fall down too. So stay positive! Work on becoming more comfortable spending time by yourself. It's great time for reflexion, thinking about what you want out of your future and for me, a great time to catch up on some reading. I hope this helps you out, and also keep in mind that you are a special person! Maybe you need this time alone to look into yourself, gain that confidence and self-sustaining qualities to remind yourself how great you are. Always remember that things are not usually as they seem; people may just be busy and you can't blame yourself for that. Have a good summer, and enjoy yourself :)
atitude..atitude....atit... you may not know and your friends and your grandmother may not say it but you are coming through with a poor oh me atitude. and peole get very tired of that very quickly. try putting a smile on face and in your voice. try not calling her three times a day. cut it down to once a week and even then if she doesn't answer leave her a message saying you'd like to see her that you lover her and miss her. she does have friends of her own and enjoys being with her friends. she has more in common with them than she does with you.(don't mean to sound nasty there. sorry) as for as your friend.see if you can't find out why she hung up on you. i'm sure you have more than one friend try calling one of your other friends and see if you can''t arrange to do something with them. sit down and talk with your parents maybe they can give you some insights into what is going on. but don't do it with an atitude or a poor ,poor me. do it in a open and adult type manner. see if that helps any. good luvk.
Has anyone spoken to your Grandma in the past two weeks? If so, maybe Grandma is not feeling like herself and doesn't want to be bothered. I'm not saying that you are a bother to her, but I know from my experience from working at a nursing home that sometimes elderly people can have moodswings worse than any PMSing female!
Please do not take it personal. But instead of dwelling on this, you should become active--get up and do something! It's summer, so why not go for a walk? Or involve yourself in a new group to make new friends. You should voulenteer (sp) at a nursing home or the local park district.
Just because one member of your family isn't speaking to you for whatever reason, doesn't mean that EVERYONE hates you.
Good luck!
Honey you need some hobbies. Go bike riding, go get some books at the library, go for a walk in the neighborhood. You are just plain bored! Maybe don't call your grandma quite so much.
Dont worry , and dont feel lonely .
ill be your Friend . ;-)
All u have to do is IM me . ;-)
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