I'm so depressed I want to die?
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No, don't die! So many people care about you, more than you think. I used to feel that way, too, but as I moved on, I realized how many people in this worl do love me and would be devastated if I wasn't around. I'm sorry to hear about your friend and boyfriend. But whenever a door closes, a window opens. You may not have the same thing again, but now's your opportunity to meet new people and you'll have new connection, experiences, and happiness with these people. Trust me, for every down, there's an up! You'll find it. And more people love you than you think. Good luck!
dont worry
Wait it out.
It wont matter later.
everytime God takes something away from you in life,
it is to to put something greater in its place.
give it time.
Everyone has been though it. I welcome you to life. Is it worth it? To keep going on? Yeah, because just like there are lows. There are highs. Who knows, you may wake up tomorrow, walk out into the world, and find someone new. A new guys who loves you or become close to a friend new friend. Keep waiting...keep hanging on because someday the sun has to rise and someday you'll be glad life didn't end.
Times like these life may seem very lonely, but life is definitely worth it! Friends come and go, but God is always there for s when we need him most, just listen.
There are times in life when you feel like it's about as bad as it can get and you just get tired of fighting and feeling the pain you feel.
Life will get better. If your friend was that bad to you then she really wasn't a friend in the first place. Though out your life friends will come and go and some will stay.
People change as they grow older start to like different things and have different type goals in life and that can separate friendships, relationships, even marriages..
Without sorrow you wouldn't know what happiness is. You sometimes have to feel pain inside to know what true happiness is. It's all part of growing.
Nothing is worth taking your life, that is a permeate solution to a temporary problem. Talk to someone, a sibling, a parent, someone that will listen. Sometimes just talking about it will help you to realize that it's not as bad as it seems and that everyone at one point or another has went through this same type of thing. It will get better that I will promise
Hang out with some other friends, go and enjoy some of the things you like to do and quiet letting the pain consume you. There is happiness all around you but you have to allow yourself to be open to finding it.
Don't give up dear, things will get better. You will find better friends and a better guy. If they are going to treat you like that then you don't need them anyway.It shows that they are the losers,not you. Take it one day at a time and try to look at the good things you have. If you keep feeling suicidal, you should find a counselor to talk to. Killing yourself isn't the answer. You are not alone and there are people that care about you that can help. If you want, you can e-mail me at carebear_cone@yahoo.com
I'll be there to listen or just be a shoulder to cry on if you need. You are in my prayers, best wishes.
First, sit down with your best friend, tell him/her how you are feeling without trying to sound like you are accusing him/her of anything. Make an attempt to "clear the air" without being argumentative. It is possible that your best friend misunderstood something you said or did, OR she may be going through an especially hard time and isn't ready to talk about it yet. When you make this effort, you Will be letting your friend know that YOU are concerned, and that you still consider him/her a friend. Then it will be up to your best friend to make the next move.
You say that you just "lost" the guy you have loved for 4 years.
Have you two been a couple for all this time? If so, then he must have "liked" you...I find it hard to believe someone would spend all that time with another person and not care about her. Perhaps he is trying to put some distance between you and is using that as an excuse. Is he dating anyone else?
Make an appointment with a counselor. You truly need to talk to someone about how you are feeling. I have been depressed ---both counseling and medication have helped me tremendously.
hey sweetie. trust me, your not alone. my best friend totally alienated me and was being a total ***** starting about 3 weeks before my high school graduation and totally throughout that. i basically wanted to die. i thought about killing myself a lot and how life was not worth living. but then i realized something, i can't change her and i shouldn't try b/c she's just gonna be bitchy to me anyways, so i just shouldn't even try. i learned to focus my energy on other things that totally helped me out. hopefully my story will help you.
i will give you a magic word.
It's PRANAYAMA.
Try to learn more about it on the web. It will help you overcome the state of mind you're trapped in.
...And one more thing.
DON'T GO DOWN WITHOUT A FIGHT !
My prayers are with you
I think right now what u would need is a fresh new start. Maybe join a camping group that will just go on a nature retreat to clear ur mind and reenergize your body. If you need someone to talk to just email any of us here that answered this question, we are all fellow human beings that are supposed to be there for each other:)
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