Help iv become very afraid of other people actions because i keep getting hurt by them?
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Funny how your critics,enemy's can make you stronger..Dismiss the people who have hurt you and do not give them any power by worrying about their words and actions..Stand up to them be brave i promise they will shrink away..
try counselling
If you having a serious issues, the best thing to do is to talk with a professional about, find one that makes you feel comfortable
Yup. Other people do that.
But is it really them?
Other people can only hurt you emotionally if you let them.
It is how you think about what other people do that hurts you.
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Physically hurt or mentally/emotionally? If physically what could you do but avoid others, mentally well at least you have options, you could take the enlightening journey of self discovery which hopefully would lead to you feeling less vulnerable, In my experience people who get hurt a lot are people that don't usually give themselves a great deal of self worth.
You need to toughen up and learn not to take things to heart so much or your life will be ruined. Life is full of hurt and hurtful people and disappointments. Life is also a learning curve so we learn by the hurt and we move on and forget it. It is also ok to say someone, you have hurt me deeply and i don't think you need have done that but i will forgive you because i have a bigger heart than you. That helps me a lot when i get hurt- it is empowering to your self esteem. Instead of getting angry i tell people that i wish them love, light and peace- it really works.
tell them all to go to hell. It will make you feel so much better.
This world is sometimes very harsh. You have to toughen up and work your way around it.
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